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Topic Started: Apr 17 2006, 12:27 PM (2,147 Views)
Noriega
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Esternarx
Apr 20 2006, 11:10 PM
WARNING: This post contains hideously pointless and off topic ranting and emo-ish diatribe. Read at your own risk.

aghhh! shes so fucking... i dont even know... okay, first of all, I haven't talked to her about that yet. She's on these meds for her ADD or whatever and they make her all depressed and depressing to be around. I can't blame her for that... but, most of the time I was with her today, (before the meds kicked in) I realized how much I actually value her friendship... I mean, I've lived in Austin for a year now and she's one of the best friends I have... but on the other hand, she's soooooo hot.... Every time I see her I feel like grabbing her by the hair and thrusting her up against the wall and........ :unsure: :angry: When we are alone and I have the time to tell her, I get all stupid and can't say anything, partly because I'm a little cowardly emo bitch, but also, partly because, subconciously, I know I don't want to ruin our friendship... She actually listens when I bitch about crap that no one else wants to hear... I actually care about how her day was when I ask about it... I honestly can't say that about anyone else... Sometimes... I think I have a chance... and othertimes... I'm sure that she thinks of me as nothing more than a friend.... If I misjudge her feelings, I've just lost one of my best friends... I can't just go up and talk to her about it... I can't... :(

Dude! You are in a bad way over this chick dude. Really, you need to eventually make a move. If you stand around in the friend zone (also known as limbo or purgatory lol) you will tear your hair out. Really, if you keep this up yourcircuits will fry and you will get seriously fucked up. Now, if its purely sexual, its not love, but even lust can put you up the way you are. Right now, you either have to step up, or go home. If you make your move, and she rejects you, too bad. You got shot down, it happens. To everyone. But don't give up straight away after that. Leave a channel open just in case she changes her mind. You CAN go back to being friends. Awkward my ass, I consider your whole situation awkward. Now, you may actually score, and thats great. But if you can't do that, just get the fuck out. There's no shame in cut and run if your mental state is in danger, which it apparently is. Go direct man. You HAVE to go for it.
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Apr 20 2006, 10:04 PM
Esternarx
Apr 20 2006, 11:10 PM
WARNING: This post contains hideously pointless and off topic ranting and emo-ish diatribe. Read at your own risk.

aghhh! shes so fucking... i dont even know... okay, first of all, I haven't talked to her about that yet. She's on these meds for her ADD or whatever and they make her all depressed and depressing to be around. I can't blame her for that... but, most of the time I was with her today, (before the meds kicked in) I realized how much I actually value her friendship... I mean, I've lived in Austin for a year now and she's one of the best friends I have... but on the other hand, she's soooooo hot.... Every time I see her I  feel like grabbing her by the hair and thrusting her up against the wall and........  :unsure:  :angry: When we are alone and I have the time to tell her, I get all stupid and can't say anything, partly because I'm a little cowardly emo bitch, but also, partly because, subconciously, I know I don't want to ruin our friendship... She actually listens when I bitch about crap that no one else wants to hear... I actually care about how her day was when I ask about it... I honestly can't say that about anyone else... Sometimes... I think I have a chance... and othertimes... I'm sure that she thinks of me as nothing more than a friend.... If I misjudge her feelings, I've just lost one of my best friends... I can't just go up and talk to her about it... I can't...  :(

Dude! You are in a bad way over this chick dude. Really, you need to eventually make a move. If you stand around in the friend zone (also known as limbo or purgatory lol) you will tear your hair out. Really, if you keep this up yourcircuits will fry and you will get seriously fucked up. Now, if its purely sexual, its not love, but even lust can put you up the way you are. Right now, you either have to step up, or go home. If you make your move, and she rejects you, too bad. You got shot down, it happens. To everyone. But don't give up straight away after that. Leave a channel open just in case she changes her mind. You CAN go back to being friends. Awkward my ass, I consider your whole situation awkward. Now, you may actually score, and thats great. But if you can't do that, just get the fuck out. There's no shame in cut and run if your mental state is in danger, which it apparently is. Go direct man. You HAVE to go for it.

I agree completely. The worst that could happen? You ask her out and she says no, at which point you can get on with your life without the stress of worrying about whether she likes you or not. One thing to remember if/when you ask her out, just relax a little bit. Pretend to be confident.

There are millions of eligible women out there. Things are going to happen how they happen, you just give yourself a better chance with her if she doesn't think you're acting like a third grader hopped up on caffeine, even if that is what you feel like. Get in touch with your Zen side. Maybe meditate a little. :P Whatever you do, do something before you lose your mind. Best of luck.
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Apr 20 2006, 09:21 PM
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Apr 20 2006, 10:13 AM
Everyone in this country is treating underaged kids like stupid little fragile china dolls, like your average 15 year old girl doesn't know what genitals look like.  Some stupid pampered bitch reported it to their parents, who made a big stink, and the noose got tighter.

When my mother was 17 (in 1935) she and her younger sister were walking through Jackson Park in Chicago, and some perv exposed himself.  My mother kicked him in the balls, and they ran away laughing.  No harm done.

We are just overprotecting kids now days, and expect the government to do it for us, because we don't want to be bothered, and when the government is in charge it makes the most rediculous lowest common denominator type rules.  Ach, don't get me started.

You know, the new conservative government here in Canada is going to raise the age of consent from 14 years old to 16 years old. That means the 18 years old guy having a 15 years old girlfriend would be a criminal... <_<

The age of consent is 14?

Ok... I thought Canda was pobably the best country in the world (and I understand you Frenchies might not think that) but 14?

Canada ROCKS! Hard!

Now E... grow a pair. If you can't come out and say it, then go my way. Imply and hint that you really like her, remind her of that letter. It doesn't have to ruin your friendship. I've come onto a lot of my friend-girls (and friend's sisters for that matter). It's backfired once - when I broke up with one of my long time friends she acted weird towards me for about 4 months (but now we're cool).

Trust me, you can ask her out - it won't ruin things. But brace yourself for her turning you down.
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Emo? I guess. Dude, if she is as good a friend as you imply, you won't lose that by "Talking" about your relationship. Tell her you want to caress her breasts, taste her lips, you know, tell her the truth, and tell her it IS driving you crazy.

Also, concentrate on finding some other friends - putting all your eggs (so to speak) in one basket is not wise, and I know Austin is not all cowboys and queers. It is the only island of liberalism in the whole damn state, but there are open minded people there, so you can make some friends.

Lay on the bed and talk. Make sure you are side-by-side, hips touching. Stare at the ceiling, but talk! Things will proceed from there.
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Nag Ehgoeg
Apr 21 2006, 06:18 AM
remind her of that letter

Don't do that! :o
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What's done is done. He can do it by saying the letter was lame. Make the best of stuff, jeeze!
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Austin is not all cowboys


HEY, what's wrong with Cowboys?


And E, you have to listen to everyone and just get it over with, trust me I've been in that situation. Except mine was worse, because she was my neighbor, but anywho trust me if you tell her it will be this tremendous experience even if she does say no. Don't every forget that we live in world of infinite possibilities. I mean the sheer though of how many ways your situation could end is mind boggling and you've probably already thought them all out and there is the problem, you're thinking. DON'T THINK, just act and the rest will follow.
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ok... well... i did it... :(
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Noriega
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Esternarx
Apr 21 2006, 05:55 PM
ok... well... i did it... :(

AND!? :huh:
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Esternarx
Apr 21 2006, 04:55 PM
ok... well... i did it... :(

Why the sad face?
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Esternarx
Apr 21 2006, 03:55 PM
ok... well... i did it... :(

Looks to me as if we're going to have to buy you a round of drinks :unsure:
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When things dont always go as planned... theres always the Captain. Least you tried man. (I'm assuming the sad smilie means things didnt go quite as planned) Its her loss.
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Esternarx
Apr 21 2006, 05:55 PM
ok... well... i did it... :(

Well, boy? Out with it. We talked you into this, so, let us know what f&%kups we are. And loose the sad face, bunkie, it's not over yet! :)
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It would be a happy face if you had got her drunk! I had no part in the misery that you lot have put him through! :P
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Apr 22 2006, 12:04 PM
It would be a happy face if you had got her drunk! I had no part in the misery that you lot have put him through! :P

Thank you Pilate, now go wash your hands! :angry:
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My hands are clean. Your's, however, are dirty with the crime that you committed with them when you typed your bad advice and lead to the heartbreak of Esternarx lol! ;)
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Ok, first off - it's not as bad as it seems. What exactly happened? We can definately salvage a friendship, and there may be a chance for romance yet!

And if you did make it but put up the sad face to throw us off... good on you!
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Assassin
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Odds are he's at her house right now rounding second base. Hence the no reply. :rolleyes:
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Rounding second,!?!?!?! Good lord I'd hope he have made it to third and on his way home by now :lol:
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And still no reply. I believe its possible.

And CE, I hardly think that regardless of what happened, that date rape via alchohol would have been better. The guy would've hung himself.
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Lol, I never suggested date rape. I suggested that they both got drunk because then it would have been so much easier.
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It's been nearly two days now... where'd he go?
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Is alcohol a date rape drug?

While GHB, rohypnol, and ketamine are considered "date rape drugs," there are other drugs that affect judgment and behavior, and can put a person at risk for unwanted or risky sexual activity. Alcohol is one of those drugs.
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Apr 23 2006, 01:11 PM
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Is alcohol a date rape drug?

While GHB, rohypnol, and ketamine are considered "date rape drugs," there are other drugs that affect judgment and behavior, and can put a person at risk for unwanted or risky sexual activity. Alcohol is one of those drugs.

Boo-yah! :lol:

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It's been nearly two days now... where'd he go?


Good question. I doubt he could keep it up this long lol. :)
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