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| the controversy..the swinger thread and fantasy | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Jun 12 2006, 03:14 AM (808 Views) | |
| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 12 2006, 03:14 AM Post #1 |
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What is Swinging? Swinging is a form of recreational social sex between consenting adults, most commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting other male/female couples for sex and/or ongoing intimate friendships. Swinging (otherwise known as "the lifestyle") can take a variety of different forms. Although single women are generally welcome at swinging events single men are accepted varies from club to club and it depends also of the couple . Although female bisexuality is generally accepted in the swinging community, the degree to which male bisexuality is accepted also varies from club to club. Swing clubs can be "on-premises" (which means that one may interact sexually with others at that event) or "off-premises" (which means that one would generally go back to the home or hotel room of other couples for sex, after deciding to do so at the event). Newspapers and magazines which carry personal ads for swingers also exist, and to a slightly lesser degree these publications may also be considered an aspect of "the lifestyle." Swingers have traditionally been largely middle class and tend to blend in quite easily with the general population in terms of appearance and ideology. the controversy..would you be part of a swinging sesion what do you think of it? are you so open mind to be in one? or you just think that it can never happen ..is sex just an expresion of love one by one..no more haveyou ever tought about it even as a fantasy??? |
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| BeatleBarb | Jun 12 2006, 03:18 AM Post #2 |
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Ok....who's going first?
Everytime I hear the word swinger, I picture George of the Jungle. Sex one at a time please and no lookie loos!
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| Deleted User | Jun 12 2006, 03:45 AM Post #3 |
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I could not do it but I can accept that others will. I, personally, think that it would lead to trouble. I'm sure that 'swinging' leads to many breakups and much jealousy. I am not the sort of person who can sleep with someone without caring deeply for them and therefore could not be in a loving relationship and sleep with someone else. It would be infidelity to me and I would consider it exactly that if my partner did it as well. |
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| youngformyage | Jun 12 2006, 08:02 AM Post #4 |
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I consider myself pretty broad-minded but I couldn't do it - I have to be in love. |
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| Deleted User | Jun 12 2006, 08:05 AM Post #5 |
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Can I just watch? |
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| theonlyfab4fan | Jun 12 2006, 11:15 AM Post #6 |
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I AM THE BIGGEST JOHN FAN!
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I`m surprised we haven`t seen a post by the master of the Monkey Thong in this thread. He must be laying down on the job. |
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You say you want to save humanity but it`s people that you just can`t stand John came to me in a dream and this is what he said. "I had a vision of a man on a flaming pie, and he told me that Betsy with a B not Lisa with a L is the biggest fan of mine". John trumps 'the boss' ! I WAS ROBBED BY THAT DEVIL WOMAN | |
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| McGoo | Jun 12 2006, 11:21 AM Post #7 |
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LIARS THE LOT OF YOU!!!! |
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| HGentile | Jun 12 2006, 11:37 AM Post #8 |
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and here I thought you met Eric through one your YOUR swingers party Ms. Betsy :lol: |
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 12 2006, 11:42 AM Post #9 |
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I opened this thread ready to talk about Benny Goodman and Harry James. |
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| theonlyfab4fan | Jun 12 2006, 11:46 AM Post #10 |
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Well, it was the one held at your place Holly. But you were so trashed that night you probably don`t remember the trampoline incident. |
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You say you want to save humanity but it`s people that you just can`t stand John came to me in a dream and this is what he said. "I had a vision of a man on a flaming pie, and he told me that Betsy with a B not Lisa with a L is the biggest fan of mine". John trumps 'the boss' ! I WAS ROBBED BY THAT DEVIL WOMAN | |
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| McGoo | Jun 12 2006, 11:46 AM Post #11 |
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Or Ms Whiplash to give her "club" name |
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| theonlyfab4fan | Jun 12 2006, 11:48 AM Post #12 |
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I AM THE BIGGEST JOHN FAN!
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Weren`t you the one riding the Holly go round? |
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You say you want to save humanity but it`s people that you just can`t stand John came to me in a dream and this is what he said. "I had a vision of a man on a flaming pie, and he told me that Betsy with a B not Lisa with a L is the biggest fan of mine". John trumps 'the boss' ! I WAS ROBBED BY THAT DEVIL WOMAN | |
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| McGoo | Jun 12 2006, 11:58 AM Post #13 |
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Yip, and aptly named too, cos I didn't wanna come off. |
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| HGentile | Jun 12 2006, 12:04 PM Post #14 |
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I'm actually happy I have to leave for work shortly now :lol: I will have to share my side of the events later unfortunately. |
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 12 2006, 12:15 PM Post #15 |
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even as a fantasy? |
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 12 2006, 12:16 PM Post #16 |
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yeah!!!!!! you can also do that!!! it is a way of swinging---- hrae are couple that lov be watched |
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| JeffLynnesBeard | Jun 12 2006, 12:17 PM Post #17 |
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I couldn't do it - I find it extremely difficult to seperate love & sex. In fact, another way to put it is that love enhances sex to such a degree that having sex without love seems empty and not worthwhile. If people do it and enjoy it then I say good for them - if everyone's consenting & healthy then that's their prerogative, but suffice to say that it's not for me. I'm a very monogomous person.
Actually, I admit that I used to find the idea of another man having sex with my (now ex-) wife quite a turn-on, but that may be just because I didn't really want to do it myself! I think there are other psychological issues there! :lol: |
| ...and in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make. | |
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 12 2006, 12:27 PM Post #18 |
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I have never been to an official swing club, but this one time at band camp.... |
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| JeffLynnesBeard | Jun 12 2006, 12:59 PM Post #19 |
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Is that why you were so against that conductor attacking the flautists?
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| ...and in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make. | |
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 12 2006, 01:29 PM Post #20 |
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Like many a red blooded, young, vibrant, exceptionally beautiful woman, I am all for steamy hot sex, but even considering sex and thinking about the person you mentioned at the same time is just wrong. This guy is uglier (inside and out) than whatever type of dead bug on a windshield any of us may be. |
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 12 2006, 01:30 PM Post #21 |
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For the record, I have never witnessed anyone play burrow the cooter plunger with a flute. |
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| maccascruff | Jun 12 2006, 03:10 PM Post #22 |
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I couldn't do it. Love and sex go together for me. Always has and I hope it always will. |
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| Rose | Jun 12 2006, 04:00 PM Post #23 |
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Well, here's another clue for you all, the Walrus was Paul...
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It's not for me. I couldn't be 'intimate' with someone that I didn't have real feelings for. Love and Sex go hand in hand...I can't have one without the other. |
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 12 2006, 05:27 PM Post #24 |
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 12 2006, 09:18 PM Post #25 |
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hey i have to admit the same happened to me once ..! would it happen in the long relationships?? |
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| JeffLynnesBeard | Jun 12 2006, 09:21 PM Post #26 |
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Perhaps that had a lot to do with it... sexual boredom and the fact that I didn't particularly find her that attractive any longer - but I couldn't forsee it happening again, so it's not a particular 'fetish' of mine.
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| Merry | Jun 12 2006, 09:28 PM Post #27 |
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I'm in total agreement, I don't like to have sex without love. It's shallow and cold and leaves you depressed. It's funny how many people here are all saying the same thing, and yet I know quite a number of people who like to have one-nighters, or just pursuing a "quickie" online with almost anyone. I wonder what that's all about? :hmm: Merry |
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 13 2006, 01:40 AM Post #28 |
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maybe the have fear to express their feeling inside
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 13 2006, 01:41 AM Post #29 |
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and what about if you can love more than one person? could it happen? |
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| ogoble | Jun 13 2006, 02:08 AM Post #30 |
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Sexual fantasizing is a normal thing...acting on it gets you in trouble.
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| maccagirl1428 | Jun 13 2006, 02:15 AM Post #31 |
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the controversy..would you be part of a swinging sesion what do you think of it? are you so open mind to be in one? or you just think that it can never happen ..is sex just an expresion of love one by one..no more No I think if you wanna do that kinda thing go right on ahead i wouldnt be comfy doing that~ I think sex is an expresion of ones love for another~How could you have sex if your not in love with the person? |
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 13 2006, 08:33 AM Post #32 |
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Sometimes people are not comfortable announcing to the world what they do in private. You have never seen me go into detail about what goes on at those frat parties (those posts always get deleted anyway). |
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 13 2006, 08:41 AM Post #33 |
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This depends entirely on your definition of love. I think most people consider it the earth shattering emotional nirvana that we all see in movies. If you feel for your partner the way the heroes do during their big speeches near the end, just when the woman decides not to marry the other guy, then you probably would not want to toss that partner around like a fifth of tequila during bowling night. All things considered, those who find "true love" (whatever that may be) just once are extremely lucky. To feel that way for more than one person at the same time seems unlikely. Most of us will never feel it once. |
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| Deleted User | Jun 13 2006, 11:08 AM Post #34 |
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Thank you!
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| theonlyfab4fan | Jun 13 2006, 11:16 AM Post #35 |
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I`m a lucky woman indeed. 32 years next week. |
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You say you want to save humanity but it`s people that you just can`t stand John came to me in a dream and this is what he said. "I had a vision of a man on a flaming pie, and he told me that Betsy with a B not Lisa with a L is the biggest fan of mine". John trumps 'the boss' ! I WAS ROBBED BY THAT DEVIL WOMAN | |
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| Deleted User | Jun 13 2006, 11:21 AM Post #36 |
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That's incredible, Betsy. Congratulations. I'm sure we could all learn a thing or two from you and I hope I'm lucky enough to be in your position somewhere down the line. I am very happy you're happy.
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 13 2006, 12:27 PM Post #37 |
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Maybe the four of you can get together some time and share your love. |
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| Deleted User | Jun 13 2006, 12:30 PM Post #38 |
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I hate sharing. :angry: |
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| JeffLynnesBeard | Jun 14 2006, 03:18 AM Post #39 |
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I refuse to share!
She's mine... all mine!
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| ogoble | Jun 14 2006, 04:08 AM Post #40 |
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So no one out there wants to share?.....not even a little piece?
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 14 2006, 10:09 AM Post #41 |
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Forget sharing, you can have my last boyfriend. And yes, that is a little piece. |
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| ogoble | Jun 14 2006, 12:18 PM Post #42 |
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:wacko: Sorry...I don't swing that way.
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 14 2006, 07:32 PM Post #43 |
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maybe because you have never tried before... give you the chance
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 15 2006, 09:35 AM Post #44 |
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I cannot speak for Maj Goble, but I do not believe that one need try everything to know if one likes it. I have never shoved a fork into my eyes, but I am reasonably certain that it would not be to my tastes. |
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| wings4ever_vzla | Jun 15 2006, 12:08 PM Post #45 |
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you can not like or dislike things ..if you never try them....! i use to hate pianple cakes...but now they are my favorites ones.. for Example |
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| ogoble | Jun 15 2006, 12:30 PM Post #46 |
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I only have cravings for beaver pie... The cream-filled tube steak don't interest me at all.
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| maccagirl1428 | Jun 15 2006, 11:53 PM Post #47 |
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| mozart8mytoe | Jun 16 2006, 05:23 AM Post #48 |
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So you are not a vegetarian? |
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| Deleted User | Jun 16 2006, 10:33 AM Post #49 |
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LOLOLOLOLOL |
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