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| ogoble | Jan 1 2008, 07:18 AM Post #901 |
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I like you very much too, Michelle.
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| ogoble | Jan 17 2008, 02:47 AM Post #902 |
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Looking back over the 2007 Awards, I am truly thankful for all the members here that voted for me in all the following categories. It's hard for me to believe I was the Winner of 3 Awards, finished Runner-up 3 times, and even got an Honorable Mention. Thank you...
Funniest or Wittiest Boardie Winner: Ogoble (16 votes) Runner-Up: JeffLynnesBeard (12 votes) Honourable Mentions: mozart8mytoe (10), Bill (9), theonlyfab4fan (8), Emilee (5), BeatleBarb (4), FamousGroupie (4), Kopite (4) and Dorothy (4). Most Entertaining Board Member Winner: Ogoble (13 votes) Runner-Up: Dorothy (8 votes) Honourable Mentions: theonlyfab4fan (7), Iluvpeter (7), Kit_Kat (5), bluemeanie (5), JeffLynnesBeard (4), and BeatleBarb (4). Member You'd Most Like To Have A Beer With Winner: Bill (7 votes) Runner-Up: kink (5 votes) Honourable Mentions: BeatleBarb, bluemeanie, mozart8mytoe, Kopite, theonlyfab4fan, JeffLynnesBeard and Ogoble (4 votes) Best Beatles/Paul Knowledge Winner: maccascruff (13 votes) Runner-Up: Ogoble (11 votes) Honourable Mentions: JeffLynnesBeard (7 votes) and Flickering Ember (4 votes) Biggest Ringo Fanatic Winner: Ogoble (13 votes) Runner-Up: Sci-Fi/Macca Fan (3 votes) Honourable Mentions: bluemeanie and DCBeatle64 (2 votes) The 'Pop' Of The Board Winner: JeffLynnesBeard (13 votes) Runner-Up: Ogoble (10 votes) Honourable Mentions: fab4fan (9 votes), Reverend Dave (5 votes) and Bill (4 votes) Best Overall Contribution To All Sections Of The Board Joint Winners: JeffLynnesBeard and maccascruff (9 votes) Runners-Up: Dorothy, FamousGroupie and Ogoble (6 votes) Honourable Mentions: Bill (5 votes), Merry and Rose (4 votes) |
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| ogoble | Jan 17 2008, 03:30 AM Post #903 |
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From the 2006 Awards...I was the Winner of 2 Awards.....well honestly 3 (if you count an alter-ego)
and 2 Honourable Mentions. Just looking back at these results, make me feel loved here. Thank you...thank you very much.
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| ogoble | Feb 10 2008, 04:24 AM Post #905 |
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My daughter's basketball team defeated the only undefeated team in her league tonight. She was the high scorer with 16 points. She now has 80 points in 4 games!
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| Beatlesaholic | Feb 10 2008, 03:25 PM Post #906 |
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| wackadoo | Feb 10 2008, 03:55 PM Post #907 |
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Congratulations, Olen! It sounds like your daughter is a basketball star. It must be so fun to go and watch her rule the court like that. |
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| Rose | Feb 10 2008, 05:12 PM Post #908 |
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Congrats, Olen! You must be SO proud!
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| Beatlesaholic | Feb 10 2008, 06:06 PM Post #909 |
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CONGRATULATIONS Olen!
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| Deleted User | Feb 10 2008, 06:07 PM Post #910 |
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Congratulations Olen. You are an amazing father for your kids. Nice to see how much you support her.
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| BeatleBarb | Feb 10 2008, 06:08 PM Post #911 |
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| MaccasGirl | Feb 10 2008, 06:08 PM Post #912 |
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You must be so proud, Olen. I know I would be! Congratulations to Holly and to you, too!
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| Queenbee | Feb 10 2008, 09:19 PM Post #913 |
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Congratulations Olen on Holly's accomplishments. You must be very proud of her. Think maybe she could get a college scholarship? Tassy wrote me an old fashioned letter (which I need to answer) and she hopes to be back online soon. That would be nice. |
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| ogoble | Feb 11 2008, 05:37 PM Post #914 |
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I was in "her" Wal-Mart last weekend.....I was hoping to bump into her, but didn't.
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| ogoble | Feb 11 2008, 05:42 PM Post #915 |
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It's loads of fun to watch her play! She could be a one player team if she wanted. But, she is a team player...and wants to see everyone share in the fun. Good kid!
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| ogoble | Feb 18 2008, 02:01 AM Post #916 |
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My daughter's basketball team won 33-31 last night in overtime. Their record is now 4 - 1. She was the high scorer last night with 21 points. She now has 101 points in 5 games!
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| Beatlesaholic | Feb 18 2008, 02:07 AM Post #917 |
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Thats Great Olen!
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| Queenbee | Feb 18 2008, 02:15 AM Post #918 |
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Sounds like someone may get a scholarship when she graduates from high school.
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| ogoble | Feb 18 2008, 02:26 AM Post #919 |
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<_< I doubt it. She has too many irons in the fire. Anyway, a 12 year old's body will go through alot of changes that will determine their athletic abilities. Plus, sports is very political at her school. |
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| ogoble | Mar 27 2008, 02:13 AM Post #920 |
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Daughter, Holly (a 7th grader), ran in a track meet today against high schools from Cleveland, Hayden, Appalachian, and other team mates from her high school, Susan Moore. She won: 1st - 200 meter run 3rd - 100 meter run 3rd - 400 meter run |
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 27 2008, 02:43 AM Post #921 |
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Yay Holly!
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| Rose | Mar 27 2008, 02:55 AM Post #922 |
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Awesome, Olen! Holly is quite the athlete!
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| ogoble | Mar 27 2008, 08:51 PM Post #923 |
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And smart...tonight at her school, she is going to be inducted into the Jr. National Honor Society for having all A's this year. BTW, my oldest son, Cory, received a presidential scholarship for $3000 a year earlier this week.
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 27 2008, 09:32 PM Post #924 |
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I reckon they gits their smarts from their paw! |
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| ogoble | Mar 28 2008, 01:49 AM Post #925 |
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I don't know about that. Correction: Holly was inducted into the National Jr. Beta Club. |
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| Deleted User | Mar 28 2008, 02:55 AM Post #926 |
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ogoble, who?
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| Old Brown Shoe | Mar 28 2008, 03:08 AM Post #927 |
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Thats awesome Olen!!! I bet your extreemley proud of her.Another trip to American Girl in the works? |
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| bluemeanie | Mar 28 2008, 03:12 AM Post #928 |
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well done Holly
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| ogoble | Mar 28 2008, 03:30 AM Post #929 |
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Michelle who???.....
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| ogoble | Mar 28 2008, 03:32 AM Post #930 |
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Not in a long while!
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| ogoble | Mar 28 2008, 03:33 AM Post #931 |
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Thanks Jayne
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| Dorfliedot | Mar 28 2008, 04:13 AM Post #932 |
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Olen he is the best. He make my flea itch.. Love ya Olen..
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| Deleted User | Mar 28 2008, 04:54 AM Post #933 |
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 28 2008, 01:41 PM Post #934 |
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Hey Olen. Hope you are well this beautiful Friday! |
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| ogoble | Mar 28 2008, 02:13 PM Post #935 |
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I'm making it... |
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| ogoble | Mar 28 2008, 02:14 PM Post #936 |
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Scratch away...
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 28 2008, 02:22 PM Post #937 |
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Well, make it a good one.
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| Deleted User | Mar 29 2008, 02:58 AM Post #938 |
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ogoble, where are you when I need you?
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| ogoble | Mar 29 2008, 03:09 AM Post #939 |
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It's great to feel needed...What can I do for you? |
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| Deleted User | Mar 29 2008, 03:12 AM Post #940 |
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ahhaha Oleeeennnn I just missed u
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| ogoble | Mar 29 2008, 04:23 PM Post #941 |
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Gosh...
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 29 2008, 07:12 PM Post #942 |
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Back off there Michelle. I saw him first!
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| Deleted User | Mar 29 2008, 08:02 PM Post #943 |
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Tassy, I am not jealous, we can share
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| Dorfliedot | Mar 29 2008, 09:37 PM Post #944 |
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I thought you do that for me..
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| ogoble | Mar 30 2008, 12:42 AM Post #945 |
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Thanks Ladies...I've been needing to feel wanted lately. |
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| doris mendlovitz | Mar 30 2008, 03:14 AM Post #946 |
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Hey Ognoble you have a nice day. love doris. |
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| FamousGroupie | Mar 30 2008, 03:20 AM Post #947 |
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Olen, how's my favourite Alabaman been lately? |
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Olen, you deserve, when I am sad you make me laugh out loud
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 30 2008, 01:33 PM Post #949 |
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Wanted? Oh Olen, you are more than wanted hon. You are NEEDED!
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| ogoble | Mar 30 2008, 11:13 PM Post #950 |
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Thanks Doris...you too.
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| ogoble | Mar 30 2008, 11:15 PM Post #951 |
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| ogoble | Mar 30 2008, 11:17 PM Post #952 |
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And I love to see your beautiful smile...
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| ogoble | Mar 30 2008, 11:18 PM Post #953 |
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I know that I'm needed, thanks.I just miss the days when I was wanted.
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| Beatlesaholic | Mar 30 2008, 11:44 PM Post #954 |
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 12:17 AM Post #955 |
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You are a good friend too Kirsten...
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| doris mendlovitz | Mar 31 2008, 12:21 AM Post #956 |
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Hey Olen any time you make it to San Antonio We 'll get to gether for coffee love doris |
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 12:31 AM Post #957 |
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You better believe it!
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| Dorfliedot | Mar 31 2008, 03:39 AM Post #958 |
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Olen, You one nicest guys on here. I love that can joke around with you and you don't take it serously. You are such a cool person. |
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Olen gets busy here, with all girls giving him attention ssshhh dont let Tassy hear it
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| Old Brown Shoe | Mar 31 2008, 10:15 AM Post #960 |
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Speaking from a guys point of veiw....OLEN YOU ROCK!!! |
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 31 2008, 01:13 PM Post #961 |
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 05:02 PM Post #962 |
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Thanks for all the kind words after all I've been through in the past week.
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 05:03 PM Post #963 |
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Thanks Charles...and may I say you ROCK too!
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I don't know what's going on Olen, but I hope everything is ok soon. We are here to spoil you
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 05:52 PM Post #965 |
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I'll live. It's just something I was told and will have to learn to deal with it even though it hurts me deeply. |
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| Dorfliedot | Mar 31 2008, 06:00 PM Post #966 |
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I don't know what you been though. but, I wish every thing will get better for you soon. and, I really mean that. You're such a good guy to been going though anything that hurt you. |
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 06:11 PM Post #967 |
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Thanks Dot. It was only something that my wife told me. It hurts, but I have to admire her for being honest with me. It's not something you can get over...I will just have to learn to deal with it. |
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| Dorfliedot | Mar 31 2008, 07:42 PM Post #968 |
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Sometimes, it good to listen to each other even if it hurts. Sometimes listening make a strong marriage. |
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 07:59 PM Post #969 |
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I doubt it...in this case. |
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It breaks my heart to see my funny Olen hurt If there is something I can do, let me know Olen. I like you very very much.
Everything will be fine, you just need some time with yourself.Have a nice week amigo. |
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Aww Dotty, you are cute. I think being honest is one thing. Being rude is another. The truth hurts, but it hurt less when it's said friendly and not like an insult. People sometimes hurt each other for no reason, just because they lose their minds, their self control. I think a serious, honest and carefull conversation makes everything better, but if the marriage is not good, a time for reflection is necessary instead of talking and listening. |
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 31 2008, 08:10 PM Post #972 |
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Olen, PM for you dear-heart |
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| Dorfliedot | Mar 31 2008, 08:16 PM Post #973 |
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That is true. can't be rude about it. but, not talking can also ruin a marriage. or a relationship. It ruin mine. |
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| ogoble | Mar 31 2008, 08:38 PM Post #974 |
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I probably shouldn't say this, but I asked Becky last week why she never wanted to make love anymore. She told me that she loved me, but did not find me desirable because I was getting "older and fatter." I told her that I still found her desirable. But, all she could say was that she was glad our bedroom was dark whenever we have made love, so she don’t have to look at me. This broke my heart. I love my wife and always want her to be honest with me about everything...even this. But, the truth hurts. I just have to now come to grips with accepting that I am no longer attractive to my wife. I spent alot of time this weekend walking and it helped. If you don't see me on here much, that's more than likely what I'll be doing. Please don't feel sorry for me and post comments about what a "great guy" I am. I know it and my wife would be the first to tell you that also. She loves me more than anyone I've ever known...just not in "that way." |
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Mar 31 2008, 09:29 PM Post #975 |
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Olen, as you know I already know about this because of some PM exchanges we have had. It is extremely brave of you to come out into the open with it. Maybe someone here can be of more help to you than I have been. I love ya to pieces and really hate this for you.
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| Dorfliedot | Mar 31 2008, 09:42 PM Post #976 |
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Olen, women can be very honest, but men...if I ask my husband Do I look a little overweight? He would say :no. And I wish he would say yes, because sometimes it's the truth, I eat so much sometimes and forget the gym, so, when I see I am like 10 pounds overweight, and that's too much for me, but he is UNABLE to say YES, you are overweight And that's why I can't trust him.
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| bluemeanie | Mar 31 2008, 11:12 PM Post #978 |
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| MaccasGirl | Mar 31 2008, 11:20 PM Post #979 |
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Olen, this just breaks my heart. I know you want your wife to be honest and I do admire honesty a great deal but this just seems a bit too harsh. I feel so bad, like it was said to me.
I have been through all the fat and unattractive stages and so has my husband but we still have been able to hang in there. I know that for myself, I finally decided to do something about it and am loosing the weight and working out. Now my husband feels fat and unsexy and doesn't want sex! Sometimes you just can't win. But I'm with Dotty. You will feel a whole lot better about yourself if you start working out and it will definitely make a difference. Take it from me, your self esteem will soar! Then Becky will see the change and be all over you! Love and hugs for you
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| ogoble | Apr 1 2008, 12:12 AM Post #980 |
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I asked her last week if it would help if I lost weight. She said that it wouldn't make any difference on how she looked at me sexually. She said that I should only do it for my health. As of this afternoon I weigh 188. I should weigh only 175. The thing that hurts me most is knowing that she doesn't look at me with the same desire that I have when I look at her. She tells me that she loves me and wants me to be happy. She says it makes her sad to see me this way and I should focus on what matters most...our love. Yet, I feel like a part of me has died. I know she wasn't trying to be cruel and I'm not angry with her. Because...she was only being honest with me. |
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| Old Brown Shoe | Apr 1 2008, 12:58 AM Post #981 |
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Olen . how many years have you been married???Has she put on alot of weight?Being honest is one thing but honesty can hurt.Man it isn't like you weigh 300
Why do wives try to put stress on their husbands??? Mine does it to me all the time :hmm: Maybe shes testing you?
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| ogoble | Apr 1 2008, 01:11 AM Post #982 |
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We've been married for almost 23 years. And no, she is not overweight to me...about 135 lbs. And, I don't think she intentionally put stress on me. I asked her a question and got an honest answer. It just wasn't what I wanted to hear...but now I know. |
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| Dorfliedot | Apr 1 2008, 05:17 AM Post #983 |
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well, Olen we all here. or, at least I know I do wish you all the best. |
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| Queenbee | Apr 1 2008, 05:23 AM Post #984 |
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(((Olen))) My heart goes out to you! I know your not looking for sympathy but if my spouse said that to me......and believe me he has every right to, I would be sad. I think your wife was harsh to say that, even with the weight you said, that is not over weight unless you 5 ft. tall. Maybe it''s a hormonal change in her. Woman go through these changes gradually and she may not just have the desire for sex no matter what either of you look like. I can name soooo many people who feel this way and they still love their spouse. Eventually life goes back to normal. Try not to take it personally, we know what you look like and it ain't bad!!! I just feel it's a hormanal thing. |
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| Rose | Apr 1 2008, 04:57 PM Post #985 |
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Well, here's another clue for you all, the Walrus was Paul...
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I hate to see you sad, Olen.
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| JeffLynnesBeard | Apr 1 2008, 05:14 PM Post #986 |
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I haven't really known what to say about this, Olen, apart from feeling quite devastated for you, but I think there is a huge amount of sense in what Judy's saying. Give her time, give her love and all of those old feelings will, hopefully, eventually return. I can only imagine how I would feel if my beloved said those things to me, so I really feel for you, but hopefully these feelings your wife is having will pass. All my very best to you, friend.
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| pood for paul | Apr 1 2008, 05:15 PM Post #987 |
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Olen~ We have never "talked" I don't think, but your post made me sad. I wish you all the best, both in your marriage and life........ Hang in there, you have many friends here, as you know.
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| ogoble | Apr 1 2008, 08:02 PM Post #988 |
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Thanks everyone for the kind words...but, I'm ready to move on. |
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Apr 1 2008, 08:11 PM Post #989 |
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Move on over to my place Olen. The neighbors were kinda getting used to your presence in the shrubs! |
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| SherryO | Apr 1 2008, 09:23 PM Post #990 |
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So, THAT'S who that was!!LOL, Tassy! Olen, wishing you all the best as you move forward.
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| BikerLikeAnIcon | Apr 3 2008, 12:52 PM Post #991 |
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Olen, hope you found the thermos of sweet tea and the fried chicken I left out for ya last night. I must say also that I apologize for making the stalking harder by moving into a house where my bedroom is on the second floor. |
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| JeffLynnesBeard | Apr 3 2008, 01:33 PM Post #992 |
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Is it called 'stalking' because you make Olen's eyes come out on stalks when he's watching you?
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| SherryO | Apr 3 2008, 04:58 PM Post #993 |
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Or is it "stocking"? As in the one he has over his head so no one recognizes him? |
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| ogoble | Apr 3 2008, 06:17 PM Post #994 |
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<_< My neck is getting longer now...I look like a giraffe! BTW, thanks for the chicken (but, I prefer regular over extra-crispy...for future knowledge). Sherry, I don't have a stocking...I wear a mask! And Andy, It's not my eyes that come out like stalks.
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| BlueMolly2009 | Apr 3 2008, 06:20 PM Post #995 |
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Maybe you should stop stalking at Tassy's, Olen, and go stalk your wife a little more.
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| ogoble | Apr 3 2008, 06:25 PM Post #996 |
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Believe me Molly.....I try.
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| BlueMolly2009 | Apr 3 2008, 06:50 PM Post #997 |
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Olen, I am sorry about what your wife said.
People want to be honest, but sometimes honesty hurts. I don't like it when honesty hurts people's feelings. There must be a way to be honest, yet not make it hurt so much.
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| Dorfliedot | Apr 4 2008, 03:07 AM Post #998 |
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Thinking of you Olen. Hoping you are feeling better today.
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Oleeeeeeeeeeen
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| ogoble | Apr 4 2008, 03:32 AM Post #1000 |
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Whaaaaaaaaat?
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:lol:

Olen, women can be very honest, but men...if I ask my husband Do I look a little overweight? He would say :no. And I wish he would say yes, because sometimes it's the truth, I eat so much sometimes and forget the gym, so, when I see I am like 10 pounds overweight, and that's too much for me, but he is UNABLE to say YES, you are overweight


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