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| Topic Started: Nov 15 2007, 08:50 PM (70 Views) | |
| Saraba | Nov 15 2007, 08:50 PM Post #1 |
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Get ready for a long story... During the start of the 2nd term, I started to like this guy. We'll call him N. He's in my gym class and I don't know why I was attracted to him... I guess it was one of those love at first sight things and I messed it up. I was too nervous so I had someone else talk to him for me. We'll call her S. S said that he was Bi and single so I thought I had a chance. A few weeks pass then S says "I'm sorry.. N has a girlfriend." I was really depressed after that... I almost cut myself even, but we added each other on MSN and we still talked. We became really good friends... but then his mom decided to start all this drama. She started talking to him about his sexuality with her religious nonsense and made him "turn straight." I was angry with that but that's not the worst part of it. N just texted me and says that he can't talk to me anymore because his mom won't let him talk to any gay or bi people because we'll try to re-recruit him or something like that. I'm torn... I know I couldn't have him because he already had a girlfriend, and even though I didn't like that, I respected it... but I still have feelings for him... but now this happens... I don't even know what to think anymore. |
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| JelloTime | Nov 15 2007, 09:33 PM Post #2 |
 
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I'm not sure on what to do but I myself think that a person can choose to be gay/bi or not and parents should not interfere with those things even if their relgion goes against it. Maybe you can hope he changes his religion that accpets gays/bis or something? |
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| Shnao | Nov 15 2007, 10:24 PM Post #3 |
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Illiberal. Odious. Awful. I agree with Jello, Iunno wut to say about religion... but about his mother doing that... >__> Love shouldn't be categorized valid or invalid based on whatever gender the person is. |
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| Saraba | Nov 15 2007, 10:33 PM Post #4 |
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Thanks. The only thing I can do now is hope. His mom seems to be monitoring his cell phone and his MSN conversations so I doubt there's anything I can do. N has already tried talking to his mom about it but she won't budge. |
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| Chesters | Nov 16 2007, 07:05 PM Post #5 |
 
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I don't think parents (or I guess I should say mother) should ever have that much control over their children, well, maybe when they're at a young age, but seriously... she needs to accept that she can't control everything he does. ._. I don't agree with what she says about religion, too. It's his choice. @__@ |
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| Xamu | Nov 16 2007, 07:51 PM Post #6 |
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That's not right at all. If someone wants to be gay/bi/straight/Chesters/w.e, they can choose to be so. If someone really wants to love someone else, they should be allowed to love them (even if people around that person force them not to love a certain person, people will love who they want to. No one can change that but people themselves.) Really, N's mom is being...well...a b*tch. Who cares if N is bi? Seriously. However, don't get so worked up over N! Life is going to pull people apart, and there will be other people you'll meet. Maybe you'll meet someone better? Or maybe you'll meet N later in life. Only time will tell. :/ |
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| Chesters | Nov 16 2007, 07:55 PM Post #7 |
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I saw that. e_________e |
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| Deleted User | Nov 22 2007, 11:48 PM Post #8 |
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i - i Bleh, mothers know best... but do the worst... xP I h8 religion too~ Atheists ftw |
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| Daegari | Nov 23 2007, 02:33 PM Post #9 |
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Yay atheism! But seriously, organized religion for the lose. TT How many more people have to suffer to appease the religious? |
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