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Topic Started: Jun 3 2008, 02:44 AM (1,530 Views)
Joe
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Since there is now a thread titled abortions, ill rechange the name me thinks ;)
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Danielle
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sex... is between 2 people who love each other very much



( thats all i think i can post about this topic )
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Eddie
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I was just thinking about this today, what if I have a daughter, and she gets pregnant at 14? Would I force her to go through with it or make her get an abortion? Would I be mad at her?
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Doggy
Oct 15 2008, 01:44 AM
I was just thinking about this today, what if I have a daughter, and she gets pregnant at 14? Would I force her to go through with it or make her get an abortion? Would I be mad at her?
Personaly I would have her go through with it but the child would be put up for adoption, however I never intend to have kids so not really a problem.
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Danielle
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When i think about it if i got pregnant at this age at this time i would have the abortion since the baby would interfere with my life to much and could cause me to fail school... im not working at McDonald's for my whole life
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I wonder... I might push for people to keep the baby now, but if I was a pregnant teen would I do it? Try to look at things from another perspective.
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I think adoption is a great alternative for people who don't want to have an abortion.
There are so many people out there who can't have a child for certain reasons. Putting your child up for adoption would really help them out.
However, I can also understand that a mother's love for the child is so strong that she decides to keep it after all. That's fine too. If you don't take good care of it, it'll be taken away by child protection and be put up for adoption after all. So one way or another, the child will end up good.
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Yowming41
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Good points, Black. (sorry for the un-helpful post)
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Eddie
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People still have to go through with having the baby though if they just put it up for adoption. Getting called a slut at school and basically insulted and looked down upon by everyone will make some people just give in.
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Abortion is one of the most difficult subjects for me. The right to life is very fundamental, but it isn't the only thing we can look at.

Imagine having a 12-year-old daughter who was raped by a close family member. She goes through a huge amount of trauma because of it, trauma that is worse because it is someone she knows so closely. Probably some people in the family hate her for speaking out against it.

Every day that she has to spend with the baby growing inside her adds to that trauma, and adds to the possibility that she or the baby will end up harmed by such a young mother.

Then she has to go through hours of labor, with pain so intense it convinces sane women that their doctors are trying to kill them.

All this at 12 years old. I think it's fair to say such a girl would never be the same again.

Or the girl who has conservative parents, parents who would disown her if they found out she was pregnant.

Then there are women who, for whatever reason, would have an abortion whether or not it was legal. Sometimes, they would try to do it themselves. Otherwise, the best bet would be an illegal--and thus unaccountable, uninsured--clinic. The clinic may not be sanitized.

This last reason is the main point that keeps me pro-choice. If it is going to be done, I want it done with the best possible chance of the mother escaping alive.
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Bunni Killer
Oct 24 2008, 09:20 PM
Imagine having a 12-year-old daughter who was raped by a close family member. She goes through a huge amount of trauma because of it, trauma that is worse because it is someone she knows so closely. Probably some people in the family hate her for speaking out against it.


change 12 to 15 and you have my life story :'(
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Doggy
Oct 24 2008, 08:04 PM
People still have to go through with having the baby though if they just put it up for adoption. Getting called a slut at school and basically insulted and looked down upon by everyone will make some people just give in.
Meh, if that happens at your school, I recommend looking for a new one. If they can't even realise that making mistakes is human and blaming the girl, then those people have a rather narrow vision on the world.
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Bunni, if you get raped of course you can abort. If it's not your fault, you can abort. But if you have sex and want to abort, then I qualify it as planned murder. Simple as that. Same as killing your brother.
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