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Partner for life
Topic Started: May 3 2007, 05:43 PM (37 Views)
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As I pen these words of guidance in choosing a partner for life, I am stirred to write as I see the sad effects in young people's lives of going their own way in their relationship with the opposite sex.

In the modern society or so called advanced and civilized society which has no moral values, man has dropped the idea of sin from their lives. They have attributed a new name to sin "the necessity of life". For them, fornication is not a sin but an act for physical necessity of life. Like wise, gambling prostitution, strip clubs, burlesque clubs, nude clubs, gay clubs, drinking and taking drugs (narcotics), mingling with the opposite and same sex and common law marriages are not sins anymore, but these are the products of the modern world.

This is a picture of the marriage
Marriage is for mature people; men and women (not boys and girls) who are able to form a separate family unit, independent both in finance and moral responsibility. Marriage is the God-given relationship for the display of our natural affections and desires. Marriage is for the raising of children in a secure loving environment. Marriage is until death breaks the bond.

The question arises:
"Will I get married and to whom?" The pressures around us from our peers, parents and the world in general are often very strong. Young people are expected to have a boy friend or girl friend from a very early age and if they do not they are seen to be failing. A relationship with a girl or boy may also be used as an expression of ego and superiority in young people who want to be seen with a partner. However it may just be the done thing, "everybody else does it, so I'll do it too." We have to realise, too, that young people have natural desires to be with members of the opposite sex of their own age. The fear of being “left on the shelf,” apparently unwanted, with the real stigma that this may bring can also lead some to be desperate to marry someone. The question of choosing a partner affects our whole life’s outlook; how many promising lives have been ruined by a wrong choice!?

ENGAGEMENT
Engagement is a time when a man and woman are preparing for a marriage to which they have committed themselves. Engagement should therefore be seen as a serious step of firm commitment to marry and not as a trial period. Engagement is a time to prepare you for a new life and attend to the many practical matters that need to be sorted out: a wedding to prepare; a new home to find; and studies to complete for example. First and foremost, however the engagement period should be used to grow closer together spiritually, mentally and physically (with self-control).

Let us be wise in these matters and seek guidance to act in a manner that does not embarrass others .We must leave until marriage that freedom to enjoy all the privileges of physical closeness and union;

After saying all above, it’s my very personal opinion that I’m very much against the marriage because it’s my strong belief that if it’s not impossible but very difficult to vestige a steadfast, loyal, constant, intrinsic, wife even in first place, particularly in our current society, better to guard yourself away from this sacred bond until and unless yet confidant that you can righteousness and can justice according God’s law with your spouse.

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very good Topic <shy:

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