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Ex-girlfriend after almost 6 years, on and off.; Boy, maybe I should just been a monk.
Topic Started: Apr 19 2004, 05:32 PM (159 Views)
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Well, if anyone hears me mention a slight word here or there, that doesn't seem directed at you, don't worry. I am just getting over some rather bad news from last week on Wednesday.

There is this girl, I have been dating her ever since like Freshman year of high school. As the story goes, she is one of them fickle types who never seem to have the right guy, even when it's obvious that one cares for her most, yet she rather try dating the jerks and is always looking for that 'perfect' guy.

She is the one I first 'did anything major with'. :rolleyes:And the only girl I ever could see myself going to the Senior Prom with, and I even changed my mind about marriage. So, she's not just an ex gf, but also my ex fiancee. :(

But thing is, I have been trying the 'let's be friends' idea (God, save us guys who fall for that load of bs. :huh: It rarely ever works for anyone who tries it.). So, being friends, we were back to the point where she was about to end dating the guy she is seeing now, to get back with me (dam, if you like something so much you keep comming back to it, why the hell not jsut stay with it?). But I got some rather bad news last week. She called off seeing me that day after school. I was wondering why.. considering she wanted to show me her new car. Two days later, I get a call from her and her sister (which I a still friends with her sis, no matter what). She's pregnant (2 months into it, and she finally finds it by testing for it?!) with that guy's kid. :blink: (And no, I'm not 'lucky it wasn't mine'. I wished to hell it was. :angry: Now she's stuck with him, no matter how she feels. And only 19. :()

So, ya. My worst fear came to reality. I have always thought 'things can get better, things always get better'.. until now.

So, if anyone thinks I sound or am pissed; don't worry, it's not you. I do have my social and emotional life involved primarily in my situation. Games come second, and work third now. ;) Dam, I hate most women. If only I didn't have feelings, attachments to people, or a need for them. lol.

Haze:
Thanks so much for your help with the advice. You have given me so much more insight into what I should do from here on. ;) So, just wanted to openly let you know how I feel for your support in my times of crisis. You are a true friend. :D And I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to let you know while on RS. I just woke up again, so ya. I was really tired.. this stuff does that to ya. :P

Eno:
Your help in giving me your story which is similar to my own is very appreciated and much needed in my time of trouble and depression. I love to have someone who is willing and able to cheer me up with success stories, when times like these came about, and you have made it through it all. :D

Current Gmeplan:
I have decided to keep my distance, and be a distant friend of Heather's. She has promised, as I have, to be there for one another, no matter what. And she and I still care for one another, but times have changed due to the current events. But I pray in time, she will come to see what is what. And I pray she will make the best choices in her life, and maybe one day I wil be there for her once more. But as long as that guy is in her life, and has already been known to death-threaten me (while talking to her), I do not wish to risk friendship for that. Plus, I am more on the outside of the situation due to the child being rightfully his (but I hope she will see how he is, and how he treats her, so she will do what is best for her kid). :(

So, avoiding and ignoring. Hoping this will make her realize I am nolonger in her life, and she will miss that which was fun, reliable, and always caring and hoping the best for her. But only time will tell. :\
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naw, im just kiddin ahaha!
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dom lets just say these things are actually going your way
apart from the ex f***ing that guy
but were would the income for the kid go?
how would it be made?
the guy who nailed your ex might actually run and try hide in diff country though so your ex who stuffed u gets stuffed herself, if her family rejects her coz the baby is demented(smokinh drugs blah blah) the laughs on her
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All good now (well, by the rare view). All shall be explained in due time. But currently, I have a lot to changed for both my clan MF-D sites (Diablo II and Runescape. But after which, all shall be explained. ;)

Few things I can name before I need to go home and get some sleep for work tomorrow are, um.. leme see.

- I was hanging out with her (against my better judgement), and he was 'spying' on her (as his usual way). She got fed up of his 'you can hang out with friends still', and 'what ever happened to Erik?', and then him turning around no matter who she hangs with, and saying 'wtf, I already made plans for tonight for us'.

- She told him to never come back, and threw his s*** out on the side of the road.

- He hasn't called back since (about 2 months now).

- I have been hanging out with her, and well I kind of have my mind set to help her as long as she isn't dating anyone (yeah, I can't help being a lil jealous.. like duh!).

- Even though she has asked me many a time 'so, what are we? dating? friends?', I always tell her that I still don't trust her enough for a commitment like that. Basically, when I feel I am ready to trust again, I'll let her know. But until then, I will be her friend (heh, well it's true.. except the 'friends' part... lol ;) Um, okay, nevermind.. I mean.. yeah. So, that's all for now).
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i hope this isnt that one phyco bitch from back in the day? :blink: :blink: :blink:
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Your farther along then I am I got two thing before I got any kind confidense money and car.
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maybe u should tell her that u want to get together in the future that way she wont give p on u and go to anouther guy,she might not though since she has a kid now
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Highly doubt that though. Sorry to say (no disrespect to the females of :NGoRlogo: NGoR), but most women are untrustworthy, or else fickle as all hell. There is a very rare occasion for those luck few to find those who have discovered such a girl, or stuck with it long enough for her to get a clue on reality. But I am still in-between losing faith, and keeping hope in this one. But who knows, until a better offer comes along, I have fun hanging out with her on the side of running 2 gaming groups. :)
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well... hange in there erik im sure you'll find a girl eventually
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Everyone get heartbroken once in a while...
well most girl usually steal your cash if you are rich
if you arent very handsome they probably would want to get a better guy and attract more attention


Basically all girls want cash, looks, or something else in the boxers/briefs
damnded shallow slut/whores

any girl in NGoR is fine by me so dont go trying to kill me
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