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| About Lubby!; What's gonna happend with Abby& the baby | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Jun 21 2006, 11:50 AM (1,854 Views) | |
| themexican | Jul 10 2006, 05:02 PM Post #61 |
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i know that you're only writing what you belive, what you want; i mean is a free world just because you're a Carby and im a Luby doesnt mean that you cant write here and i cant write on .....well any carby topic, but at least can you be a little bit more nice? we (lubies) are not making fun of you or saying that carby sucks or anything, i used to be a carby even when Luby I was "on" i think Carby was an amazing couple and i was very angry when they broked up but i got over it. that doesnt mean that i want to make you a Luby you can be whatever you want everything can happen (please its ER) so the only thing that i would love to is that everybody can be friends( Carbies, Lubies, Samkas) and not put our fav relationships against that. p.s. Sorry for the awful spelling. Alex |
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| Delusions of Adequacy | Jul 10 2006, 05:03 PM Post #62 |
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Wow, way to go with the condescension there. There have been arguments that weren't all "Luby4Eva!!!" and didnt talk about characters deserving stuff and you know what nobody has to meet the burden of proof here or risk being sighed at and patronized. You think a good outcome for the baby will make for bad drama and some others think it would be over the top to kill it and drag the show down for maybe its last season. Drama is drama and tragedy is tragedy and too much of a bad thing is dull and depressing and therefore NOT good drama. Who knows maybe the writers can rise to the challenge of writing a positive outcome. JMO of course. |
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| DCU | Jul 10 2006, 05:17 PM Post #63 |
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Yeah, there seems to a lot of condescension and attitude coming from a certain segement of the fandon, and I don't know what the hell their problem is but it needs to stop. Nobody has to agree with you. |
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| Rach | Jul 10 2006, 05:17 PM Post #64 |
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We naren't saying it will make bad drama. We're asying that trauma is the main part of Er's drama. Also, babies are hard to write in to shows like ER. Also, we aren't being condescening. Well, we don't mean to be. Ash adn I in particular are confrontational as we both have little to do now school is out and we come from a public speaking background and thrive on argument. We've apologised for this before, we can't help it. Also, I have said quite publically in the Let It All Out Thread that I don't want this hatred. I like to debate and get two sides of an argument but I don't want this to get petty and pathetic. I want us all to be friends as well, but I'm not going to be all nice and sweet. I'm snappy. I'm sarcastic. I'm a relatively cruel person. That's just me. I won't be all sugary sweet to you, no matter your ship. Just ask the other Carbies. I'm not ncie to a lot of them either! Excuse the bad typing but I'm irritated and tired. |
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| Mia | Jul 10 2006, 05:39 PM Post #65 |
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^ Well said Rach.
Sorry if we seem like we are condescending you all but have we ever said that we are better than you? No. Have we ever said that we have "a problem"? No. Have we ever said that you have to agree with us? No. All we've done here is the same as what you'd like to do...voiced our opinion. Sure it's stronger than what you'd like but that's because we're passionate about our ship.
I'll be the first to admit that we're (especially me) are doing that but it's all in humour. And the end of the day...it's a TV show! It's totally fictional and what ever happens on ER is definitely not up to us. Sure we have our own opinions butlike Rach said...Life would be boring if we didn't make contradictory opinions. Mia xx |
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| DCU | Jul 10 2006, 07:29 PM Post #66 |
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Oh gosh, this is one of my biggest pet peeves. People who say "I know I'm being awful, but it's just who I am, I can't help it! You just have to deal with it." That's such b.s. Unless you have some sort of pychological problem, you CAN help it. You just don't want to. I think that whole attitude is very self-absorbed and immature. I am not saying that you are either of those things but that's how that post came off to me. Also, nobody is asking you to be sugary and sweet(Lord knows I'm not), but you don't have to be disrespectful and dismissive either. There is some middle ground you know. Some of the posts from Carbies I have seen in this thread and others have been flat out nasty, and its weird because I haven't seen anything similar coming from the other side. Maybe its just bitterness or boredom, I don't know. But I can't see how some of you can write some of the posts you've written and still claim you just wanna be friends. In fact, lately I've been getting the impression that the Carbies here WANT to start some sort of lame ass fued with the Lubies. |
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| bigshow | Jul 10 2006, 09:20 PM Post #67 |
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Just out of curiosity, what made you switch from a Carby to a Luby? Was it the Carby breakup? |
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| themexican | Jul 11 2006, 12:53 AM Post #68 |
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^^part of it yeah but mostly cause Carter move on you know? he went to live to Africa and left everything just for be with Kem(i dont liker her either i prefer Wendall the social worker) and then married her and Abby looks really happy with Luka i thinks that's one of the reason that i became a Luby Alex
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| Sanna | Jul 11 2006, 03:53 AM Post #69 |
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you are totally rght. !! |
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| Rach | Jul 11 2006, 05:46 AM Post #70 |
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Oh gosh, this is one of my biggest pet peeves. People who say "I know I'm being awful, but it's just who I am, I can't help it! You just have to deal with it." That's such b.s. Unless you have some sort of pychological problem, you CAN help it. You just don't want to. I think that whole attitude is very self-absorbed and immature. I am not saying that you are either of those things but that's how that post came off to me. [/QUOTE] I'm sorry but I can't change who I am. I'm a highly scastic person and a lot of my humour comes across quite nasty but I'm not changing myself. I just admit to who I am. I like who I am. So, yeah, I'm nasty and I admit it and you may think I can change but it would be jsut hiding who I am. I don't believe in censoring myself. I have some strong eprsonal issues that cause me to be this way and I vowed to myself I wouldn't change myself in any way shape or form. Stopping myself from saying something is changing myself. I'm usually rather polite but recently that's deteriorated and I'm sorry but I can't take back what I've said. As for Lubby. I really hope the baby survives and they stay together. Both Abby and Luka are happy and apparently so is Carter and Kem. I just try not to get my hopes up too much. I qwuold like Carby back but realistically speaking I know it is unlikely. I just want to enjoy the show so I think I'm going to withdraw myself from all these debates before I give myself a headache with these conflicting opinions of my own. |
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| Delusions of Adequacy | Jul 11 2006, 07:41 AM Post #71 |
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I guess we all have personal issues. Self censorship is the only way the world doesnt bust out in biting and scratching all the time because what it relly is is good manners. Noone wants you to censor your ideas or thoughts only to be a tad bit more thoughtful in how you express them. |
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| AndreAle | Jul 11 2006, 08:38 AM Post #72 |
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The conclusion here is: -No one is going to change who they are( No One is asking you to change) -Everybody is gonna stay with their points of view (which i think is ok) -We are not going to fight again, we are just going to argue. -We all get to be HAPPY again because LUBY and CARBY rocks. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: |
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| Ashleigh | Jul 11 2006, 09:25 AM Post #73 |
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Oh my. I disappear for a day and I have a lot of reading to catch up on.
You are 100% right. It is a free world and the internet is one of the few places where complete freedom of speech exists and at the end of the day all anyone has really been doing is getting their point across. I truly am sorry if any of our points have come across "nasty" or "agressive". That really was not my intention (I can't speak for the other girls here...). I didn't think we'd end up this petty.
I'd love that too. I do think that is it very petty that television characters can separate people and put a rift between them...I'm not saying I don't buy into - because I'll be the first to admitt that I do and it is sad. I guess it's just something we'll all have to work on.
Again; I am very sorry if we've come across that way. It wasn't my intention and I hope it wasnt any of the other girls intentions. I'm not going to make excuses for anyone except to say that I think we might have gotten a little bit carried away and for that I appologise. We definetley weren't asking for anyone to agree with us. I think we maybe started to try a little bit too hard to get our point across. No one ever has to feel like they should agree with anyone unless they really do and I guess thats the beauty of the internet in that you can say something that's completley ridiculous or controversal or whatever; but no one has to agree with you or believe you. In the end it could maybe lend itself as something to think about. I know that was my orginal intention.
I'll admitt in a way we were...petty as it is. It was all; originally; supposed to be in good humour. We were after a response, not an arguement - a response. We were looking for an other side of the arguement; a way to see if we really did have a point or if as usual we we're just being as delusional/ridiculous as ever. |
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| Dev | Jul 11 2006, 11:05 AM Post #74 |
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Can't we all just get along people? Please? The people that are Die hard Luby fans are never gonna turn Carby and the Carby fans are never gonna turn Luby. Thats just it. Im so tired of this arguing!! ahh!! There is no need to start some sort of "fight" on the board. It's tottaly useless and is gonna get no where, so Lubies-U go one way and Carbies- U go another way! GOD!! Let's just end this it's piontless! hehe-sorry I went to sleep really late last night from working. sorries. |
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| Sanna | Jul 11 2006, 03:39 PM Post #75 |
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well said..dosen't matter if we like Luby or Carby.. we can like each other anyway:) |
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