I Feel Dirty...

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I Feel Dirty...; ::sigh::
Topic Started: Jul 7 2004, 12:28 PM (161 Views)
Linz	Jul 7 2004, 12:28 PM Post #1
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	Alright everyone, I need some help again. My girlfriend and I have officially broken up, that was about a month and a half ago maybe a little less, and things have been fine. (Most of you know the drama from my relationship with her.) ANYWAY, my best friend Geoff is dating a boy whos friend has a crush on me. (The friend is a girl) Let me give you some background on her. She is someone who has had a relationship with a woman and identifies as a "True Bisexual", though I think she is DEFINATELY a Lesbian. She won't tell anyone that she likes girls cause she doesn't want her family to find out. They would be fine with it and she knows that, she just wants to make sure she is who she thinks she is...kinda like not telling them and then taking it back. She is someone who just wants to have fun, and that is ALL that she wants right now. (Background on me...I have to really care about you to have sex) ANYWAY...Everytime I see her and she is drinking she kisses me and stuff. Usually I'm drunk too so I don't mind being kissed. The other night we went out in a group and I ended up having to stay at her house cause my ride decided to leave. Well we were both a little tipsy and we basically did everything but have sex. It was kinda sereal. But now I feel really dirty and guilty about it. Everytime I look at my ex she is all angry and stuff cause she knows that something happened cuase I didn't come home that night. AND, it's just not me you know? I would love it to be me...trust me on that one...but it's just not. SO now, I think that this girl Meg wants to "get together" sometime soon and I'm afraid to just let it be the 2 of us. I like making out with her, cause I haven't gotten any in a long time and I really like making out, but I feel dirty afterwards. Any suggestions?
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


Crystie	Jul 7 2004, 01:15 PM Post #2
Ginny, Identity Posts: 729 Group: Members Member #50 Joined: January 10, 2004	oh linz dont feel dirty...youre havin fun. alot of people will probably disagree with me on that. yea its sort of like going to a club and dancing with a total loser and feeling guilty about it afterward....you shouldnt...its all in fun. but if you do it so long that you find yourself falling for her then you should tell her. ah what do i know...i suck at this stuff since most people here are of a different sexual orientation then me. hopefully you guys can help me as much when i run into guy trouble
	"You are who you are, the only trick is not getting caught" -Clea DuVall Men are like parking spaces. All the good ones are taken and all the available ones are handicapped.


Flyergirl	Jul 7 2004, 03:54 PM Post #3
Kelsey, Little Witches Posts: 112 Group: Members Member #82 Joined: June 29, 2004	Oh, you shouldn't feel dirty cause you cut loose, I think everyone has to do that once in a while, even if it isn't your "normle" character. I am just like that, I have to really care about someone to even consider getting 'closer' with them, but I know that if it has been a long and lonely couple of months, you just have to let yourself go once in a while. Dont feel dirty, 'cause nothing you did was wrong.
	"....so how do you land 'Johnny Rocket Boy' and I keep ending up with subtely diferent models of 'throws up on himself elmo'!"- The Astronauts Wife


Linz	Jul 8 2004, 08:14 AM Post #4
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	Thanks Ladies. I don't think that I feel dirty because I feel like I did something wrong, it's more that it's not something that I normally do...or think to do. IT's TOTALLY out of character you know? ::Le Sigh::
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


carlamity	Jul 9 2004, 04:44 AM Post #5
The Kudos Kid Posts: 8 Group: Members Member #84 Joined: July 8, 2004	so, you feel good when you're making out with her but, you feel bad afterwards. you need to decide if the feeling good outweighs the feeling bad afterwards...
	hands off... she's mine!


Linz	Jul 9 2004, 08:54 AM Post #6
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	Carlamity, I think you are probably right. I need to figure out if getting off is worth the guilt...and I don't think that it is. (Sorry so bluntly put ) Thanks again everyone. You've all helped a lot.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


carlamity	Jul 11 2004, 12:02 PM Post #7
The Kudos Kid Posts: 8 Group: Members Member #84 Joined: July 8, 2004	good luck linz
	hands off... she's mine!


Smidge	Jul 13 2004, 08:05 AM Post #8
Stokely Mitchell, The Faculty Posts: 182 Group: Members Member #70 Joined: April 19, 2004	linz...Dude! you have to realize that a relationship and a sexual relationship are two completely different things. I've dated people for four weeks and realized we've never even had an actual conversation. then I'm satisfied hormonally ...i dump them..things are okay. What will really screw you over is trying to take a sexual relationship and turning it into a real one by things like saying i love you...thise little things. Plus this girl probably wants more experience in the field and you're doing something that not only benefits you. so don't feel guilty...feel goood. Crack open your teachers manual and get ready to teach her a few lessons. SaraHa
	One banana, two banana, three banana, four! Four bananas make a bunch of baby surfin' boards!


Linz	Jul 15 2004, 11:17 AM Post #9
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	LOL NICE. Thanks again everyone. I'm working on getting into my getting off mindset. Hopefully...I'll be able to pull it off...keep my mind out of it.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


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