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Help!; I'm so confused.
Topic Started: Mar 24 2004, 06:52 PM (286 Views)
Linz	Mar 24 2004, 06:52 PM Post #1
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	Alright. So most of you...who have read the Lesbian Death Bed thread know that I have been having some slight issues in my relationship. With that being said...I have a story... A friend of mine is moving to LA in just over a year with her now fiance...by then her wife...and they asked me to join them. Jo...my friend...is starting a production company with me and we want to be able to work on it while she is gone. WELL...I told my GF this. And she said that she would never go to LA...which is fine. I then told her that the only hting that would hold me back would be if her and I were getting really serious by then, like talking marriage or soemthing. Well. she said...and I quote, "Well that's never going to happen so you should just go". :angry: SO...I have been with her for over a year. I really care about her but given the current standing I don't see us staying together much longer, which makes me really sad. The worse part of this story hasn't even come yet...it starts now. On saturday, when I was with my friend JO, I met one of Jo's friends... She is a total hottie!!! And I have a big crush on her now. Her and I spoke and she just got out of an 8 year relationship and is freaking out...so I would never do anything stupid like ask her out...ESPECIALLY since I'm with my girlfriend still. But if my girl and I break up...then I think that I'm going to end up persuing this girl...who doesn't want anything right now...and while I live with my girlfriend who would then be my ex. AM I horrible? Does it make sense that I am thinking that we should break up? and should I do it or just wait it out? Remember I live with her until August. If we do break up...should I just avoid the other girl entirely...or start hanging out and make her want me? LoL...that sounded funny. SIGH... This sucks.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


p3ngu	Mar 24 2004, 07:09 PM Post #2
TV Guest Star Posts: 76 Group: Members Member #49 Joined: January 10, 2004	Not that I am any expert but it does seem like your current relationship is doomed I think you already know that or else you wouldn't be thinking about someone else. The problem is "the till August" bit, is that stopping you from ending this relationship?
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GrahamEaton	Mar 25 2004, 12:36 AM Post #3
Unregistered	I think you know it's over, too, especially if you're thinking about this other girl. Personally me, if I think about being with another girl or think about my girl with another girl, I want to puke and then poke someone in the eye. LOL. But.... speaking as the other girl. When my girl and I first got together, she was still living with her ex because the lease had not ran out yet..... And it was a bit wierd but it was do-able.
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Kate	Mar 25 2004, 03:34 AM Post #4
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,107 Group: Members Member #6 Joined: November 24, 2003	Quote: Well. she said...and I quote, "Well that's never going to happen so you should just go". Nuff said, no? I don't know what tone was used, but it sounds to me like you guys have run a course... you can either make a fresh break or play it out. Maybe things will improve and maybe they won't. Now is the perfect time to evaluate that. I know I have over-simplified what is probably a very complex set of circumstances. Whatever you decide, though, I wish you the best of luck.
	For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.


Linz	Mar 25 2004, 01:18 PM Post #5
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	Thanks everyone. UPDATE!!! The girlfriend is out of town until monday, but after a statement said last night..."There is nothing keeping you here" It is over. I am breaking up with her on Sunday...which I know is weird cause it's not immediately...but like I said, I won't see her again until then. Thanks for all of your help in confirming basically what I already knew. I appreciate it.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


GrahamEaton	Mar 26 2004, 12:18 AM Post #6
Unregistered	God... is this going to be like the world's longest weekend or what? I would so want to just get it out of the way!
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Kate	Mar 26 2004, 03:05 AM Post #7
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,107 Group: Members Member #6 Joined: November 24, 2003	Plenty of time to practice in the mirror: "It's not you, it's me - well, it's mostly you really, but I'm trying to be nice..." "I think we need to talk... and then after that, hardly ever talk to each other again..." "Hey, you know how you think we're a couple? Well, I have some news on that..." ... Well, that's how most of my practices go. I am sure you will do better!
	For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.


Linz	Mar 29 2004, 10:27 AM Post #8
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	LOL....Yeah basically this weekend has sucked major butt. She came home last night but was too tired to really talk. So today it is. Woo-fing-hoo. My proactices basically went like this... "You were wrong you know. My heart was kissing me here. What's been keeping you?" Harsh right? It will probably come out more like.... "I love you you ass hole!" or "Do you care about me at all or are you just here cause I owe you money?" Lol We'll see....
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


GrahamEaton	Mar 30 2004, 01:22 AM Post #9
Unregistered	Quote: "You were wrong you know. My heart was kissing me here. What's been keeping you?" Is that supposed to say your heart was KEEPING you there? Or am I missing something huge...??
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Kate	Mar 30 2004, 03:29 AM Post #10
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,107 Group: Members Member #6 Joined: November 24, 2003	If you are missing it, then that makes two of us. I did start thinking about a heart kissing Linz, but then it got weird, so I stopped.
	For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.


Linz	Mar 30 2004, 01:54 PM Post #11
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	LOL!!!! Yeah I am stupid and typed kissing instead of KEEPING. Sorry everyone. Kate...kinda weirded out that you ACTUALLY thought about heart kissing.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


Kate	Mar 31 2004, 03:46 AM Post #12
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,107 Group: Members Member #6 Joined: November 24, 2003	You think you were weirded out! It makes a change to be thinking about a different part of the chest for once, though.
	For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.


Linz	Mar 31 2004, 12:41 PM Post #13
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	We all know about your abnormal obbsession with the breasts Kate...so I think that it was quite a feat for you to think about something other than them.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


Jenna	Jun 19 2004, 03:33 PM Post #14
The Kudos Kid Posts: 11 Group: Members Member #78 Joined: June 10, 2004	as we all know this was ages ago and linz is now single and somehow not living with said bitchy ex gf. Personally I'ld like to kick her ass for saying what she said. i think she was trying to get lindz to do what she didnt have the spine to. And of course linz had the spine and has moved on and has no computer at home because of it. btw Kate i to imagined the heart kissing her lol, but i thought i figured it out, it was her self esteem/heart thanking her for breaking up with heart breaking ex. lol i read way to much into stuff la la la Jen



Kate	Jun 20 2004, 04:46 AM Post #15
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,107 Group: Members Member #6 Joined: November 24, 2003	That is so beautiful, Jenna. Thank you for taking that abstract image to it's logical, metaphorical, conclusion. I get lonely on journeys that start out with weirdness. My brain shakes your hand, and my heart humps your leg... sorry about that, I can't control it.
	For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.


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