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Need Help; ahhhh
Topic Started: Mar 12 2004, 08:00 PM (116 Views)
Crystie	Mar 12 2004, 08:00 PM Post #1
Ginny, Identity Posts: 729 Group: Members Member #50 Joined: January 10, 2004	Ok you guys are usually good at advice (Graham ). So anyway, i have a problem: Ok, one of my bestest friends ever, call him Vinny. Vinny fell in love with this girl...ok Allison. Now Allison is suicidal and is a freak of nature....not trying to be mean...just stating facts here. So Vinny goes out with Allison and wont let him talk to any girls and that really hurt my feelings cuz i wanted to talk to Vinny really bad because were best friends. Allison also starts controlling him and whatever he does is her decision. I dont like this. I confront Vinny and im like "Vinny, i hafta tell you the truth" and i told him that i thought Allison was controlling him and she cant do that. To my suprise, Vinny totally agreed and hated her control. Vinny wanted to dump her. The only problem was was Allison's suicidal problem. Allison wrote in her diary "And i promise i wont cut myself because Vinny will miss me" so Vinny is scared what she will do to herself or even him. So he is a wimp about the whole situation and he gets Allison's best friend, Dara to dump her for him. Didnt go down well. Now, Vinny is a guy, and guys are well.....guys. So he is attracted to Dara of course and Dara likes him. Dara is Allison's best friend. I'm scared sumthin is gonna happen to my Vinny. The other day, Dara asked Vinny out and of course the man couldnt resist her so he was like yea. Bad move. Well, about 3 days later she dumps him cuz #1 shes never satisfied with any guy and #2 she was up in arms about her best friend Allison and her situation. I just think that Vinny has no idea where he is going and he is gonna say yes to any girl he comes across cuz hes desperate. If Vinny gets with the wrong girl again, theres gonna be consequences like what just happened...what do you guys think i should do???? :wacko: :mellow:
	"You are who you are, the only trick is not getting caught" -Clea DuVall Men are like parking spaces. All the good ones are taken and all the available ones are handicapped.


Riley	Mar 13 2004, 09:38 PM Post #2
Sapientone Posts: 467 Group: Admin Member #1 Joined: November 22, 2003	If you are truely concerned, I would bring it up to him jokingly. Thing is, things said in jest are almost always true. And it's the best way to get your point across without any hurt feelings. If I were in your shoes, I would tell him I was going to hold "interviews" for his next girlfriend. Then, I would really set him up with someone who was more suitable. Just let him know that you are there to make sure he won't get hurt, or put into a bad situation again.
	~Riley If looks could really kill... Then my profession would be staring. Stokley #83!! Go Colts! Bring back Inuyasha!!! ~ABK~


Crystie	Apr 1 2004, 07:42 PM Post #3
Ginny, Identity Posts: 729 Group: Members Member #50 Joined: January 10, 2004	Update yea its been a little while but i just got some news from vinny. ok even tho dara dumped him theyre both still in love with each other. allison is keeping them away from eachother and keeping them from going out cuz shes just a plain bitch and catn accept the fact that she was dumped. vinny cant go out with dara because allison will shun dara..and plus the suicidal thing. vinny cant get over dara either.........confused
	"You are who you are, the only trick is not getting caught" -Clea DuVall Men are like parking spaces. All the good ones are taken and all the available ones are handicapped.


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