Person Or Gender?

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Person Or Gender?; Not for bisexual people, though, LOL.
Topic Started: Feb 26 2004, 01:09 AM (617 Views)
Idle_Shit	May 6 2004, 07:46 PM Post #16
Ginny, Identity Posts: 658 Group: Members Member #66 Joined: March 31, 2004	I am sorry to say i picked B, Though the guy maybe real cool, and I may have all these feelings, I just can't stand dick, I gag at the thought of one, I am nearly gagging now, I just couldn't...I'd deffinetly want to be his friend, but relationship no way... I just couldn't do it. But I think if i was getting to know someone over the net I'd ask if they was male or female, and probably want to see a picture before I met them, not for shallow reasons but for safety and all that, and if i turned up after being convinced they were a girl I would just walk away because they had told this big arse lie to me and thats not exceptable.
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Linz	May 18 2004, 02:36 PM Post #17
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	I picked A BUT!!! The but is big, I ddon't know if I would be able to have "relations" with him. Sex with boys yucks me out. I did it before and didn't even get turned on. That is a problem. I think that I could love them as a really good friend though. And I would probably give it a go. You never know until you try.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


Idle_Shit	May 19 2004, 07:54 PM Post #18
Ginny, Identity Posts: 658 Group: Members Member #66 Joined: March 31, 2004	:ph43r: I'd run for the mountains.
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Linz	May 20 2004, 09:27 AM Post #19
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	I like the ocean as a place to run to better myself.
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


Idle_Shit	May 20 2004, 07:21 PM Post #20
Ginny, Identity Posts: 658 Group: Members Member #66 Joined: March 31, 2004	plays with t-shirt again
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Kate	May 21 2004, 03:40 AM Post #21
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,107 Group: Members Member #6 Joined: November 24, 2003	I would run for the starving children in 3rd world countries. Mountains and Oceans have had the limelight for long enough. Let's think about the kids, people.
	For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.


Idle_Shit	May 21 2004, 06:31 PM Post #22
Ginny, Identity Posts: 658 Group: Members Member #66 Joined: March 31, 2004	points at kate Thats very true ....
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CantHelpMyselfILuvGurls	Dec 15 2004, 10:55 PM Post #23
The Kudos Kid Posts: 11 Group: Members Member #92 Joined: December 15, 2004	Oh wow.. I had to think about this one. I mean I tend to call myself bi, but truly I think I'm lesbian and even THINKING about penis makes me squirm. Just for some reason it does not seem good to me at all. But for the sake of the person I hit it off with, I would have to try and see how it went.



Cleaduvallslover	Dec 17 2004, 02:24 PM Post #24
Nan, The Astronaut's Wife Posts: 267 Group: Members Member #13 Joined: November 24, 2003	This one hits a raw nerve with me. I myself am a lesbian(just incase ya didnt know.lol.) I usually only seem attracted to girls, although I have those little moments where I can look at a nice well turned out guy and think.Mmm he is nice. But that would be as far as it would go. I had a few failed relationships with guys during my time of denial. Again like someone said,Its the sex with a guy,I just dont feel anything(emotionally.lol.) Once, I met someone who I assumed was a girl. They never in all our time of being friends explained the situation. In fact they only told me after we met and I had kissed her. She was Ts. I was taken aback at first because you would not know to look at her, at all. I am a very liberal girl and I would understand if she had been more honest,esp as things were getting intimate. So I was angry for a while, Not at who she was, just that she didnt think she could trust me. I know its a big thing but the person I am I thought she would understand. Although there was an attraction I felt betrayed and could not let it go further. We still keep in touch and I respect her for being the person she is. In fact she opened my eyes even further about gender identification. I understood more about what it must have been like to be born into the wrong body. I had started writing a book about the subject but I felt I didn't have enough knowledge to fully do it justice. Sorry this is lengthly and slightly going off topic, but I felt it important. Anyway If I really did care for this person and they turned out to be someone different I would be angry for a while that they lied, but eventually I would come around and remain friends. As for whether I would consider a relationship. I really don't know.Not until the situation arose. It would depend what sort of relationship they wanted etc. Well I vote A Sorry I have raved on long enough. Tc Peace
	"Well it's about F*****G time" Graham Eaton - BIAC


Linz	Dec 17 2004, 05:28 PM Post #25
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	I think that i Have said in the past that i would like to think that it is the person, and I think that recently I have discovered my inner psychi wanting to make out with boys! When Drunk I'm finding myself kissing all the boys I can find and in fact I have even been dreaming about them. Now...Everyone here knows that I am indeed a lesbian by "label" and by trade but I'm so confused lately. So...that is my delema, I still stick to the it is a person to person basis, but maybe, just maybe that makes me Bi....Theres something to think about huh?
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


Cleaduvallslover	Dec 17 2004, 06:29 PM Post #26
Nan, The Astronaut's Wife Posts: 267 Group: Members Member #13 Joined: November 24, 2003	Well I wouldn't say I want to make out with guys or I dream about them. Apart from Johnny Depp.lol. But I know what you mean. Its like you cannot get from A-Z without using the other letters of the alphabet. What I mean is, Life is trial and error. My fave quote has just sprung to mind."Nothing is unnatural that is natural in itself." So If it feels right, do it.(Just within the legal boundaries of course.)
	"Well it's about F*****G time" Graham Eaton - BIAC


Cleaduvallslover	Dec 17 2004, 06:32 PM Post #27
Nan, The Astronaut's Wife Posts: 267 Group: Members Member #13 Joined: November 24, 2003	P.s I just noticed on your profile you like the band Garbage. How hot is Shirley. I love them. What is your fave album. I must admit I am kind of more drawn to the version album. Have you heard of the tv show Hex? Well they sang the theme tune. Anyway tc hun Jodes
	"Well it's about F*****G time" Graham Eaton - BIAC


Linz	Dec 20 2004, 01:40 PM Post #28
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	Hey Jodes, Garbage is the best band on the planet and Shirley Manson is SUPER hot! My fav album would be the self-titled, but I am really looking forward to the new one. It's sounding really good and looking like it will be out for this up coming summer. Keep the fingers crossed you know? As far as this weird boy thing, I am past my "experimenting" stage. Been there done that you know? And it's just weird that 6 years after I come out and all that this starts happening. I am really beginning to think that it's just because I'm horney and whatever looks my way might be fair game. ::sigh:: Oh well. Hopefully Everything will come together and this will no longer be a problem. Thanks again girl! TC! Linz
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"


Cleaduvallslover	Dec 20 2004, 04:32 PM Post #29
Nan, The Astronaut's Wife Posts: 267 Group: Members Member #13 Joined: November 24, 2003	No need to thank me.lol. I saw a bit of a preview of the new album on a site. It is looking ok. I like the self titled album too. One song I love that makes me dance about air guitar style would have to be "Stupid Girl". I love that or "Androgyny." I could talk music all day and night. You Tc Jodes
	"Well it's about F*****G time" Graham Eaton - BIAC


Girl Flavor Gum	Dec 20 2004, 06:54 PM Post #30
The Kudos Kid Posts: 17 Group: Members Member #88 Joined: November 13, 2004	I've been a lesbian in my mind and heart since I was 8, but I met a guy online once, and we hit it off. I tried the relationship because i cared about him as a person. It hasn't been that easy subsequently, though. I am a lesbian and probably wouldn't go for a guy again, no matter how wonderful he was.



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