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You've been in love with your best friend forever. One night, in an incredibly drunken stupor, she says that she's always been curious about being with another woman. She not so slyly is prepositioning you. What would you do?
1. Do it. Who knows when you will have another chance like this? You have been lusting after her forever! 3 (13.6%)
2. Laugh it off and try to dodge her advances. Your friendship is much more important than your sexual gratification. 4 (18.2%)
3. Are seriously, seriously tempted but decide not to jeopardize your friendship. 8 (36.4%)
4. Refuse to do it but bring up the topic again when you're both sober. 7 (31.8%)
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Topic Started: Feb 24 2004, 12:49 AM (474 Views)
GrahamEaton
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So.... hmm....
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GrahamEaton
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I cannt tell a lie... I was torn over this one for a long, long time. Assuming I was single, and assuming it was the best friend I was lusting after for like, eleven years...... *draws breath in sharply* I am not sure I would have the restraint to stay away, especially if she started making physical advances. But I really wouldn't want to jeopardize the friendship and the possibility of a relationship, if she really was curious..... so I guess I would wait and bring it up when we were sober and laugh it off if it turns out she was just drunk and rambling. I think.
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Kate
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Laugh and Dodge for me. Not only is it an exciting new dance move that is sure to pull crowds of admirers, but it is also what I do best.

This scenario has played out three times for me already. Frankly, I don't want to be someone's experiment. If you're curious then visit your local library, thank you!

If I wasn't friends with the person, then that is another matter.

Friendships are rad, I don't like to mix them up with sex - If I wasn't so immeasurably good at the act of love, then it might be OK, in that she would get over it within a matter of months and would eventually stop asking people why they can't be more like me.
For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.
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GrahamEaton
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Who had the balls to say they would just do it? LOL. I wanna know. You're my hero, I think. Cuz I keep thinking about it and I'm like.... I can't promise that I wouldn't just do it......
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Crys
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Graham Eaton, BIAC
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I picked 3. I don't think I'd be much up for laughing in that situation, see. (Not just because the shock would've floored me, either.)

So yeah, I'd say no. Not too sure how I'd feel about it though. *shrug*
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FuzzBall
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I picked 1.
This has happend to me quite recently and it worked out for the okay. I wasn't drunk, my pal was. She didn't exactly say that she wanted to experiment, rather kept hinting and flirting like crazy. Her sexuality had always been a bit of a question mark anyway. I eventually told her that i was a lesbian and she didn't reply. I asked if that was okay with her and she leant in and kissed me.
Not exactly how you described it, but after the night, things returned to normal and if anything we are closer than we were. We dont talk about it much, but we joke about stuff like it alot. So...there you go. I picked number 1.
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Margot
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Nan, The Astronaut's Wife
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I would totally do it...so yeah i picked #1....

My philosophy:

Who cares.....the only good friends are the ones with benefits anyway :yes:
(semi-joking) :no:
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Crystie
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I picked 3...probly cuz it has never happened to me before.
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i picked number 3 also. that actually kinda happened to me the other day. one of my best friends is exploring her sexuality and we've had a lot of really intimate moments. and we were doing shots together before this semi-formal dance we went (she was my date) and things got intimate. but we refrained.
on the other hand, last year, one of my really good friends... we got really involved and ended up sleeping together, and then trying to have a relationship, which totally didn't work out. and we both got hurt pretty bad in the process, and it's taken us a long time to get over it, but we're better now. so, i don't know if i'd do it again. maybe. i don't know though. i think not... i think i've learned my lesson.
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Bashira Kincaid, Ghosts of Mars
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ok here we go funny thing happened... me and my gf kind of hooked up like this


It was new years eve and i threw a small get together with some friends at my house. I had liked her for a while and unknown to me she had liked me for a while too. We all get there hace some drinks and the next thing u know we have slept together... but the happy thing was that by that time we had both sobered up by then and it was a mutual thing and it has opened up a beautiful relationship that is about to hit two months.. but i picked C because in anyother situation i would not have done it, considering we all thought she was a straight arrow, and honestly i dont know what it was that made me go for her, it is strictly against policy to date straight girls... it never ends well

Sally
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GrahamEaton
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It is strictly against policy to even CRUSH on straight girls. Ugh, that is asking for heartache.
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Kate
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:( *sigh*
For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.
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Crys
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Graham Eaton, BIAC
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ditto that, darlin' -_-
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Kate
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I just said goodbye to my straight crush last night (she's moving to another country), and I swear for as long as I live, I will NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Jesus, it was hard.
For me though, it's like I've given birth to my own baby girl. You know? Only she's, like, a big giant girl who smokes and says "shit" a lot.
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That happened to me once, My straight and very gorgeous best friend just climbed into my bed after a party, we were both pretty tipsy, and we went all the way, and still no weirdness between us, one of the best things I ever did I think...Got that little thing out the way...I always have crushes on straight girls, its like sods law for lesbians, the only gay girl that I personally know that I have ever had the slightest feeling for is my girlfriend...all the other girls I've wanted have been straight or the dreaded open minded...where they tease you like hell then say "I only date men."
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