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Crystie	Oct 5 2004, 10:06 PM
Ginny, Identity Posts: 729 Group: Members Member #50 Joined: January 10, 2004	ok my best friend is this guy...i thought he was gay cuz he admitted it to me a while back. turns out hes bi. oh and for the record..hes completely in love with me. last night he asked me out for the 3rd time. i dont really want to go out with him but i feel so bad for rejecting him cuz hes my best friend. i dont want to be with him cuz...well he is bi and i know all about who hes been with and what theyve done and stuff and it freaks me out that hes been with more men then i have and theyre mostly older. another thing is that hes not the guy i would normally go for but hes getting all depressed cuz i told him to wait and he was like no1 has ever made me felt the way you make me do. and he was like were perfect for eachother, i cant hold this back anymore. but i just like dont want to go further then best friends cuz what we have is just awesome and throwing it all away on a relationship is just not right. and like everyone knows his history cuz hes sorta outta the closet so it would make me look like a desperate girl going out with a guy that has been with more guys then i have. i told him im going thru a depression stage (which is true, i didnt lie) and i cant have a relationship at the moment cuz i need to get my life back in order. so i told him to wait and hes getting really anxious wanting to know when and stuff but the truth is i just feel so insecure being with someone who hooks up with guys so much and sometimes doesnt remember their names. and if i went out with him he would stop telling me of all of his hookups when i would know theyre still going on. and he broke up with his boyfriend yesterday and his boyfriend imed me and he was like we couldnt be together cuz hes obsessed with you. ahhh guys i need you soo bad right now. i dont know what to do. :wacko:
	"You are who you are, the only trick is not getting caught" -Clea DuVall Men are like parking spaces. All the good ones are taken and all the available ones are handicapped.

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