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Linz	Sep 9 2004, 11:01 AM
Indie "It" Girl Posts: 1,048 Group: Admin Member #17 Joined: November 25, 2003	Alright everyone, I need some advise/help/background. I went out on a date with this girl on Labor day. For those who don't know what that is...it's a US holiday and we don't have to work or go to school. So...I met up with this girl for Dim Sum at 11 in the morning. We then went Kayaking, for a walk, coffee in the North End (Bostons Little Italy) and then we went back to her place and she made me dinner. (She lives by herself) and I was with her until 11 that night. Nothing happened...no kissing or anything, which is fine with me. What made the whole day weird was that while at her apartment, she asked me about being gay and my out story. Then she confided that she had never been with a woman, but men just "aren't working out" so she feels like maybe she might be gay. She has thought this for a few years. And has slept with men and really gotten nothing out of it. She is 25. Here is the problem. I have never dated anyone who is "unsure" of their status. And I'm afraid that she is just curious and fed up with boys and I don't think that I want to be an experiment...though I am thinking seriously about that. SHe said a few things, and just by hanging out with her, i really got the feeling that she is probably gay, but she also said things like..."Plan A" (aka boys) hasn't been working out, so I thought I should go to "Plan B" (girls)" That makes me Not so sure about this. AND...after our great date on monday, she emailed me to see how I have been doing and to see if my interview went well (I'm interviewing for a new job) and all that jazz...but then asked if we could go out to a bar sometime and meet some more girls! I just don't get it. Why do I get the crazies? So advise, thoughts, concerns, questions? All welcome and needed!
	-Linz "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good." "I like girls alot"

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