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| Westaway | Oct 8 2004, 11:03 PM Post #151 |
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They just keep bouncing :)
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And all this time I thought you were in love with me porkie
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| Dexterian | Oct 9 2004, 01:58 AM Post #152 |
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Some say I'm a visionary, others say I'm seeing things
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he just loves ur avatar. |
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| Morporkestan | Oct 9 2004, 11:25 AM Post #153 |
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Master of the Domain
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Oh I am westy, a sexy mind is a beautiful thing! Oh btw - I got rejected, that raises the total to five times out of the five ever times I've asked someone out! :( Porki. |
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| Abral Narth | Oct 9 2004, 11:44 AM Post #154 |
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Forum Freedom Fighter
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No problems with intellegent women, Im at uni.
Im going to awnser about four posts here at once, so bear with me. There's probably something for you somewhere, I even lighten up at the end, as Im not all doom and gloom, i promise. I have a sense of humour thing.However im now angry and depressed about the now comical state of affairs, my housemates all paired off, i had a conversation with my faketrophygirlfriend (just housmate but people do mistake us for more) and she announced it was simple. Women dont go for "Nice guys" until they want someone permanent. Which strikes me as silly now i think about it (alcoholic fog clearing from my tired brain) as why would you have a relationship you know wouldnt last? My other problem is get carried away to easily, problem is I want a relationship,m and as Jervis Bay said earlier its zen thing. However, at 19 im already feeling less tough than I was,m two years ago, I get hungover now, my back aches etc, anf Im just frightened that im nto going to actually have a relationship i can give youthful energy, because while Im a 15 year old at heart Im a little older and slowly increasing. Its kind of sad that Im not going to have experienced teenage romance properly in a few months. Still my housemate has found his ideal partner already, and did when he was 17. She travelled 4 hours each way to see him for an afternoon (bout 3 hours) this summer and every time the phone rings he looks heartbroken when it isnt her. Its quite heart warming really. BUt things like that aside, you dont end up in relationships by being nice. Or so im told. And chocoholia, it takes a brave person to walk away, but if he didnt respect you. Then im really sorry that happened, but at least you are better off now. I cant see how any person would do that to any other person regardless of gender. I think violence outside of defending yourself or others is barbaric and shows lack of character, intellect or spine. It makes me sick that guys like that are even allowed near women. Really it does. Oh and moshing doesnt count as violence if done properly. the whole spin-kick-hardcore-make-people-hurt thing seems stupid to me, but venting your stress in a cathartic way that doesnt hurt anyone is great. Nothing like Moshing with friends, all pushing eachother, but picking each other up as they fall. If someone gets hurt, its an accident and they are picked up and got out the pit. Because thats not what they are about. Its about getting the rage out without hurting anyone. Oh and Morpekestan, looks are one thing, but being blown away by how you get on with someone else is a much more powerful feeling. Im fed up with them both, but if you can get it. Go for it. And a final note Westie: everyone loves your avatar
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| Dexterian | Oct 9 2004, 11:49 AM Post #155 |
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Some say I'm a visionary, others say I'm seeing things
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How many times have you rejected a chick though? Just to break even. Ive been rejected 2 times, mainly coz afterwards i found out they did really like me and all but didnt wanna hurt me, but ive rejected about 6 people. So I'm ahead. I didn't really reject them, I just couldnt see myself with them, dunno, im weird, and ive never had a girlfriend. Lol. |
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| Abral Narth | Oct 9 2004, 12:06 PM Post #156 |
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Forum Freedom Fighter
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rejected? hmm... *counts* how many have I rejected? 1, and one, who I should have, but got depressed and just blanked her. I feel bad but I had a small personal crisis and she just got forgotten. How many rejected me? 12, which i think disallows my not asking problem. Ive been getting good at that but have not got the knack to find interested girls. Interesting, easy. Interested, nope. That doesnt include ones i was talking to before their boyfriend sat down between us and started slurping, i mean kissing them, that would put it up to 14. So I could be said to be owed. But to be honest Id rather just run into a nice girl who I find attractive and interesting and likes me. Ive technically had a girlfriend, but when the alcohol wore off (us both) she told me she had a boyfriend already. Oh and there was the girl who insited she liked me, but then changed her mind over a week. We went ona date technically, but only because she was too spineless to just say she didnt like me. Even though insisted she just had to say it and Id give up and be friends before all that. But proper relationships? Me? :rolleyes: |
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| Morporkestan | Oct 9 2004, 04:03 PM Post #157 |
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Master of the Domain
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Meh, I'm one for five, never had a girlfriend but had to reject a girl once (because she's only in year 9 and thats just TOO weird for me) But definately down for the count. Its funny actualy, I've got a lotta friends who are girls and hang about them but never really bothered trying too much to get a gf, when I do I just end up disapointed so fuck it! Morporks |
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| at lantis | Oct 9 2004, 05:53 PM Post #158 |
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Swing those sexy hips!
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Look. You're both (AN and Pork) too worried about finding a girl. You're too young to worry about that. I guarantee you - she will come along when you're not looking for her. She'll hit you right when you don't expect it. So just be happy, get on with life and meet lots of girls and just be yourself. She's out there and you'll find her just by being who you are wherever you happen to be. Its not a disaster if you don't find her tomorrow or next week you know. Patience! |
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| Abral Narth | Oct 9 2004, 08:29 PM Post #159 |
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Forum Freedom Fighter
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Unless Bush wins the next American election. I cant get a girl if Im a big pile of dust. I have plenty of female friends. Some I made friends with first some I, well, liked. But in the end, you can guess what happened. BUt I liked them for more than just looks? Damn straight. So built friendships on it. Its not like Im losing by chatting up women, its just so frustrating, especially when that girl goes for the hollowest most untrustworthy jerk around. Its frustrating, and to make things worse, last night i was drunk but sobering up, which doesnt mix well with feeling down, because alcohol is a depressant. I was fine when i went out, but if id known i was going to get like that I wouldnt have drunk. I know one girl who doesnt drink because sobering up on a downer only makes it worse. Id take your advice on meeting girls, but, while not litterally, I "fall in love with the first nice girl who wants to listen", to quote my friend. Maybe I should be a monk or something. As for hitting me unexpectedly, I have quite enough of that from my friends! Oh and this :drink: is guiness isnt it? It has to be! Oh and Morporkistan, yeah, I draw the line when you can look at them and think that they look like, well, children, even if slightly woman shaped ones. Whch to my eyes is below 17. Though Im couple of years older than you there anyway. |
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| Dexterian | Oct 10 2004, 09:38 PM Post #160 |
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Some say I'm a visionary, others say I'm seeing things
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I'm not too concerned about a girlfriend. Altough sometimes I do wish I had one, other times I'm kinda glad I don't. |
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| Westaway | Oct 10 2004, 09:50 PM Post #161 |
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They just keep bouncing :)
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sometimes we become such good friends we worry about spoiling that friendship by taking it one step further. Thankgoodness I did with alpal co he's now my hubby It is A NICE AV ISN'T IT
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| at lantis | Oct 10 2004, 10:20 PM Post #162 |
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Swing those sexy hips!
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Only become a monk if you want to be. Don't let Bush affect the outcome of your love life Slow down on the drinking Make sure your friends stop hitting you And the rule is, the youngest girl you can go for is half your age + 7 years. Or so I'm told |
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| Abral Narth | Oct 10 2004, 11:49 PM Post #163 |
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Forum Freedom Fighter
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which for me is 17 years! lol (very close) Sounds lie the most sensible version if a silly rule you could have. Id say I dont drink too much anymore as I get pleasantly wasted, but not hungover. Or at least I dont so much anymore. A hangover is a sign you did drink too much, and I have avoided those the last few times ive been out, BUt I have a bad leg and I need to be drunk to get home so Ive got an excuse! Im probabkly going to avoid drunkenes for now though, as deoression and alcohol dont mix. THere are better things to do when depressed than drink. Its not so easy to be happy and single when you have a house where every housemate has someone. Its extrememly depressing. Im happy for them, as they are happy, but I know what Im missing and thats the problem, how can every person in my house be paried off and not me? Only two of my friends hit me, the short angry graduae phsycologist girlfriend of the aptly nicknamed tree, who is short and violent And my housemate, a second year psychologist.. Anyone notice a pattern? |
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| at lantis | Oct 11 2004, 06:07 PM Post #164 |
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Swing those sexy hips!
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Hey, you could always live it up being single and remind your mates what they're missing out on
And remind me to stay away from psychologists - to think i even considered becoming one! (why was she 'aptly' named Tree??) |
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| Abral Narth | Oct 11 2004, 07:25 PM Post #165 |
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Forum Freedom Fighter
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He was aptly named tree, she was his girlfriend! He's 6'4" and about 2'6" wide (so like me but 3 inches taller) Psychologists are pretty cool, its just that the short female ones are worth avoiding lol! Problem is with living it up as single guy, theres almost no one to share the lifestyle with, that and the fact when youve done it for as long as me without any breaks (bar a drunken incedent when I was 16... she had a BF then, she just didnt tell me, and that lasted 12 hours) you stop finding your freedom exciting. Afterall, Im free, free to get drunk, stay out late, get mugged and die in a gutter without anyone wondering where I am... Still I have met loads of people this freshers week (my freshers week was rubbish last year) and has a lot of fun, its just a shame I go for girls who are wrong. I guess it doesnt help that I find normal girls so boring does it? I go for the wierd ones (because they are more like me) (and also I like the colour black, its dead sexy) instead.... |
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Im going to awnser about four posts here at once, so bear with me. There's probably something for you somewhere, I even lighten up at the end, as Im not all doom and gloom, i promise. I have a sense of humour thing.

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