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Random thoughts
Topic Started: Jul 8 2004, 09:17 PM (21,701 Views)
Westaway
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They just keep bouncing :)
I'm finding out what puppy cuddles are, She's snuggled into my dressing gown atm with her head in the small of my throat.She has the lovely puppy smell too.
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at lantis
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Swing those sexy hips!
Random thoughts for Friday afternoon:

...ahhh thank goodness the week is finally over!

.... oh dammit I have a midsemester exam at 9am tomorrow morning :( *cries*

... even worse, i haven't actually opened the textbook for it :(

*downs a bottle of coke courtesy of company's barfridge*

... those krispy kreme donuts so good and yet so terribly bad at the same time! (had some this afternoon, manager's treat!)

time to go home! :D
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Westaway
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They just keep bouncing :)
term holidays at last
*gets ready to sleep for a week *
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at lantis
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Yup, another weekend over... much partying and I've only really just woken up and all...


Ooh schnapps if you see this - I saw UNSW for the first time ever last night :) the event I went to was held at the Roundhouse and the little I saw of your campus looked really nice! Your campus shits all over UTS :) but it sure is pretty far!
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Abral Narth
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Sep 17 2004, 07:21 AM
Random thoughts for Friday afternoon:

...ahhh thank goodness the week is finally over!

.... oh dammit I have a midsemester exam at 9am tomorrow morning :( *cries*

... even worse, i haven't actually opened the textbook for it :(

*downs a bottle of coke courtesy of company's barfridge*

... those krispy kreme donuts so good and yet so terribly bad at the same time! (had some this afternoon, manager's treat!)

time to go home! :D

sounds familiar....

my random thoughts are always questions...


argh... being a second year... we actually have to do work in between having more fun because last year was lame, and chatting up freshers girls, who are nice but all have boyfriends (like every other girl ive chatted up in the last 4 years actually.. and no its not a put down, i normally only find out when I ask someone else about them)

Been havng a few woman problems as usual.

My random though. Why are all the best women taken? Infact, why are all women taken? And unwilling to tell me that? Why have i found that every girl I ve liked since I was fifteen was taken? (no joking, they always are) what is wrong with women? Why are so many sensitive, fun, modest and yet stunningly beautiful always with complete and utter 2D jerks, who actually say things like "I won" and then when you explain that you arent playing their game (you have more important things in mind like enjoying someone's company and would rather be a close friend than a distant shagpiece) they cant actually comprehend you?

Something you might be able to awnser....

Am I the only member of "alternative" culture here? I mean you all seem very nice, but its fun to discuss metal and black and guitars in spiky shapes with people.... Specifically any left leaning liberal types?
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Westaway
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They just keep bouncing :)
abral I used to ask...why are all the sensitive, tender nice guys gay.
I guess it works boths ways. The ones we like are always gone because they are so suitable
I agree too that most have shit partners. I used to look and say...if she can get a guy why can't I?
or
I much better that her or I'm more his type

I did get the man in the end...a gorgious, sensitive, loving, sexy, hrd working guy, so I won in the end, even if it did take a little longer to find. I suppose the moral of the story is.....the best are hiding and we need to put in the hard yards to find them and win them, but when we do we are the ones others look at and envy :)
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Abral Narth
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you see, i see a girl and think.. hes better looking, more fun etc, why would she want me?

A less depressing thought than women etc...

Why cant i get any reception for my laptop in my room? Why am i the only person who has to go downstairs for internet?
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at lantis
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Ahhh.... ok.

Why are all the best women taken? Well, the real answer is, they're not. You just gotta find them. The problem is, they're probably waiting for you to find them and you sound a little shy maybe? Confidence is the key!!! And patience, like Westie said. You're not going to find the love of your life straight away, there are probably going to be more than a few stumbles as well, but just take it all in your stride.

Why are they not willing to tell you? Well, this one is a little difficult. The good answer is, they don't want you to feel uncomfortable talking to them when you realise they've got a boyfriend. They probably just want to talk to you and don't feel the need to bring up the fact that they have a boyfriend. However, the bad answer is, sometimes chicks like being chatted up even though they're taken because it makes them feel wanted. So the answer to this really depends on the type of chick.

Why are the beautiful, sensitive, fun etc women taken by hopeless jerks? Um... now, this is also a little bit of a difficult question. The thing is, sometimes a chick can get into a bad cycle of always dating the same kind of guy even though they're obviously not compatible (seen this one several times!) and it takes a while for them to realise it. Sometimes they like the confidence (or is it arrogance?) that these type of men can exude because they may not have it. It could be a self esteem thing. Lets face it, the reasons for this are endless. However, you shouldn't have to worry about this. Only in rare exceptional circumstances should you interfere with a taken woman. Otherwise you set yourself up for big trouble. Just either stay friends or move on. Or you could wait until they break up with the hopeless jerks?

Did any of that make sense? But I can't help you on the metal and black and guitars thing, or the laptop issue :( sorry!
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Jervis Bay
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Oct 5 2004, 04:25 AM
Why are the beautiful, sensitive, fun etc women taken by hopeless jerks? Um... now, this is also a little bit of a difficult question. The thing is, sometimes a chick can get into a bad cycle of always dating the same kind of guy even though they're obviously not compatible (seen this one several times!) and it takes a while for them to realise it.

Nicely put, from start to finish.

Abral, my friend, despite the loss of perceived masculinity I will receive from doing this, I suggest you go out and hire "Bridget Jones' Diary". That might elucidate the above point a bit further still.

Otherwise, as a guy who not 6 months ago was in the same frame of mind as yourself (and to some extent still agrees with some of your points), I have to say be patient. I know that is a crappy thing to say, but it is the truth. Sit back, and ask yourself what you want out of a relationship, and once you have concluded, then chill out. Making a fuss about it will only frustrate you. I speak from experience here.

It's kind of a zen thing, you have to let go of your wants in order for them to manifest. I think I will leave it at that.

Oh, and you are not the only member of alternative culture here, though i tend to rock more on the punk/ska side of things nowadays, I am getting too old for the metal moshpits (or at least the German ones, they are really violent and drunken).
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Oct 5 2004, 07:46 AM
you see, i see a girl and think.. hes better looking, more fun etc, why would she want me?

I think the same thing a lot.

I've been engaged to an arsehole, lived with him for 5 years and the bastard hit me. Luckily I had the sense to move out.

I went through a lot of hell those years. But now I look back and think what a valuable experience it was.

Abral, you're a special guy. Don't put yourself down so much.

What are your special qualities? Talents? Skills? Whilst we live in an aesthetically orientated society, sometimes those who have special qualities are often very attractive. I love a guy who can make me laugh, finds the crazy and obscure things in life and brings them out.

Look inside yourself, and look for the things that make you unique as an individual. That's what attraction is founded on. And keep your head high and be yourself!
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Morporkestan
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I have to agree, attraction IS weird...

I am currently single but have three really great friendships with girls that people have mistaken as relationships and whom I am all attracted to.

The first is with my best friends girlfriend, the second is with a girl I have nothing in common with but she is the best looking girlie ever, and the third is a not so attractive girl who is my mental equal....too many choices! :(

Morporkius.
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at lantis
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Go for the chick who is your mental equal! Relationships are boring if you can't hold a conversation with the other person.
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retirement villas
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Oct 7 2004, 01:16 PM
Go for the chick who is your mental equal! Relationships are boring if you can't hold a conversation with the other person.

Listen to this woman young grasshopper, for she speaks much truth.
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Morporkestan
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Agreed, plus the good looking one is a Newzealander :o . How could I ever considered her??? :P

Porkimus.
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at lantis
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Excellent :D let us know how it goes, ok?

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